“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Talk about shyt tests....

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I get a call around 8:00, I was planning on just sitting around watching some flicks cause of a lack of funds in my present situation, it's from M (6 usually, 7.5 tonight). She asks me what my plans were for the night, and I explain the situation, she tells me to not worry about it, 'we'll go have fun, and I'll buy you a couple drinks.' I agreed under these new conditions.

So, her ride pulls up, and she's sitting in shotgun with two other girlfriends (NHB from a previous post, and another girl that is butch beyond repair... both aren't even in the phuckable range). That's when I find out that we are meeting with a few of their friends at the bar... not a problem, untill friends turns into friend, who is also interested in M.

We find a seat in the club after grabbing a couple drinks, NHB starts flirting with me from the start, trying to get me to compare her to other blatantly hotter chicks... meanwhile the dude is working game on M... I made a point to act unphazed, but I was ready to start macking on every one of those pretty ladies in the club at this point.

NHB buys me a couple drinks, and I can't help but play c&f with her, she just made it too easy to do otherwise... She finally caught the hint that I wasn't biting, and started sculking untill some other dude walks up and grabs her away (phucking finally).

We're still sitting at the seat, Butch at my left, M at my right, and dude on the other side of M... M started trying to get my attention, but I played the coquette, acting cold towards her, and she would put her arm around me and all... I start talking to butch as the two go outside for a smoke.

Me : Are those two an item or what?
Her : A lil... but we got this thing that every guy has to go out with me before they can start dating her, and she does the same for me, just to make sure that the guy is real...
Me : Oh... *as I'm eying some cuties walking around everywhere*
Her : But she talks about you alot, she says that you're the best kisser she's ever met, and you're cool to talk to, etc. etc.
Me : Well, next time she's gonna make a date with me and another guy, tell her not to.
Her : Do I detect a hint of jealousy?
Me : No, it's not about jealousy, it's about respect, and if you wouldn't have told me that I would already have started playing the field. I'm gonna go to the washroom...

I left butch, and went to the other room where I knew I wouldn't be seen... as I'm cooling off this little cutie walks past making EC... she says hi, I return the favor and she comes and starts talking. As some dud walks up to her friend she tells me,"I gotta help her ditch this loser, I'll be back."

Later I was dancing with J(5.5-6.5), and we started making out on the dance floor, then I'd walk around for a bit talk to NHB, and butch for a little... NHB would drag me to the dancefloor, and I'd find the first excuse to get away from her... and work my way to J without anyone seeing. :)

Near the end of the night, I was sitting on the sidelines when my nightmare came true... NHB walks up, grabs me and gives me a kiss at the same time that J comes and takes me to the dancefloor, she's like "who's that?", I replied, "Look at her... I wouldn't worry." She smiled and we danced a bit more...

After the slow songs, I got J's #, and went to M... she asks for a kiss, so I oblige (her friend was watching, so it felt good)... He gives us a ride back home, and M ends up in the back seat half falling asleep, and she started smurfin' me (stuck her hand in my pants).
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And here I am... wondering... Should I next this girl because of these games, or should I just tell her "I don't like what you did at the club, If your gonna date this guy, at least don't bring me along, it's insulting." and continue where we left off???
 

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I'd say M was using you to make other guy jealous.

One of M's friends like you and M used you. Trying to set you up with one of her friends and to make other guy jealous at the same time.

You did alright. Better if you would have left them all and started macking other chicks.

Sounds like M's interest level went up throughout the night. However she sounds like she was wasted and it might not mean much in the morning.
 

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I'd say M was using you to make other guy jealous.

One of M's friends like you and M used you. Trying to set you up with one of her friends and to make other guy jealous at the same time.

You did alright. Better if you would have left them all and started macking other chicks.

Sounds like M's interest level went up throughout the night. However she sounds like she was wasted and it might not mean much in the morning.
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Ya, M was pretty drunk... I did leave them all, but I couldn't completely ditch (they were my ride).... even though I did try to find an alternate ride.

I was macking other girls, I just said that shyt to the butch so that she'd have something worthwhile to tell M. J was the girl that I met at the bar.

It is very tempting to go out with Butch to try and pass her stupid test just to say that I lost interest, but that amount of spite hardly seems worthwhile...

I will next this girl.
 

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Yeah but remember, that dude was driving you home and you had the chicks hand in your pants.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I won't deny that the interest is there... at least on some level, but she could just as easily have been in the front with the other dude...

I think that I'm just gonna let her know that she's on a thin line, and see what happens. But, I just know that there is going to be more tests before this is over... and I'm really not sure if it's worth it.
 

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I would next her based on the lack of respect alone :)
 
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