"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Talk about a huge red flag

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Girl I've been talkin to and went a few dates with started tellin me about how she got married. She's been divorced for 2 years now and is 28. She told me the only reason she got married was because she got preggers. I thought ok this is enough to disqualify. Then she says when she found out she was preggers she didn't know if she wanted it and actually asked the guy what she should do. She said he told her to keep it and they will work things out. lol. Holy criminy.

Mind you this broad is smokin hot. After she told me this crap I was disgusted. It just portrayed how she puts on a show acting like she is sweet and innocent, which she did when i first started talkin to her but deep down inside she is ugly as sin. I started thinkin some poor sap who doesn't know his head from a hole in the ground will fall for her victim mentality. I mean she was actually trying to convince herself and me while she was tellin that crap that it wasn't her fault she had a kid and got married. lol. Dumb.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women have one extra gene. I believe that it was isolated in a back lab at the U of Feminism, and it is known as "It's not my fault " gene.
It's presence is responsible for their habitual and lifelong protest that whatever happens to them is unconnected to their behavior.

You see ,it's not their fault that it's not their fault. Lol.
 

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jophil28 said:
Women have one extra gene. I believe that it was isolated in a back lab at the U of Feminism, and it is known as "It's not my fault " gene.
It's presence is responsible for their habitual and lifelong protest that whatever happens to them is unconnected to their behavior.

You see ,it's not their fault that it's not their fault. Lol.
This...has to be one of the most painfullly funny, true, posts I've ever read.:crackup: :D :up:

I may have to actually point out this extra gene when applicable. Women should know that it's not their fault that it's not their fault.
 

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jophil28 said:
Women have one extra gene. I believe that it was isolated in a back lab at the U of Feminism, and it is known as "It's not my fault " gene.
It's presence is responsible for their habitual and lifelong protest that whatever happens to them is unconnected to their behavior.

You see ,it's not their fault that it's not their fault. Lol.
BINGO:rockon:
 

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Women's complete inability to accept responsibility for their actions fascinates and saddens me at the same time. Even the good ones have that gene.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yup. Crap cracks me up. Not only that she also started blabbin about how guys hit on her all the time callin her a sweet little thing. lol. Then she says I still got it. I'm thinkin oh brother still got what, a superficial outlook on things? ha. Looks aren't everything which she seems to think that lookin hot is key to everything but being a decent person is not. Good for just one thing a hole to fill.

Sweet and hot on the outside but sour and cold on the inside. Dumb dumb dizzy dizzy. I swear I felt like I was talking to a child that doesn't know any better. I was pissed at myself when I got home because I let myself stoop to the level of just listening to her. There was no intellect just superficial absurd commentation on abstract subjects with nothing to offer but her good looks which is just a facade to cover up the inner ugliness. She really has no idea what is going on around her. Living in some self proclaimed fantasy world of me me me. Then I thought this is some 5 year olds mother? Basically a child having a child. Bletch.
 

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Stopped reading at single mother. NEXT!
 

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This broad sent me a text yesterday askin if I had given up on her. I want ta leave it open as a FB thing. How do I respond to that?
 

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Just tell her "how can I give up on you baby when your not up on ontop of me... get ontop so I can give it up... if you know what I mean.."

Just keep it sexual bro, stop worrying about her as a LTR.. she obviously likes having fun with you, keep it FB status and your golden.. stay playful, stay fun, your money.
 

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Take her out somewhere for a few drinks or something, maybe pool/bowling/mini-golf. Kino on high...see how far you get.

I feel you on the immediate disqualification thing. I was talking to a girl a couple weeks ago...hitting it off pretty good. Then she said, "blah blah blah my daughter blah blah"...immediately in my head, I went, "Oh snap, there goes THAT."

Same deal, was banging a guy, got pregnant, they got married, he wanted her to be the "good little wife" but she was still in her party-phase.

She still is, from what I can tell...alas, I am still not allowed to drink, so going out, taking shots, and hitting it in the parking-lot is out of the question. :p

I never called her back.

It's depressing, because here is a girl that, if she just took BC or insisted that the dude wore condoms, she still could've been out there partying/enjoying life until she found someone she REALLY wanted to settle with. Now she has a child who absorbs all of her time and the only "fun" she has is when HE has the kid for a weekend and she sneaks out to "tha clubb" with her girls.

Cute-looking thing too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dummy said:
Looks aren't everything which she seems to think that lookin hot is key to everything but being a decent person is not.
Very typical behaviour here.

I swear I felt like I was talking to a child that doesn't know any better.
You basically were. Most women are little more than overgrown children with tits. That's just something we have to accept.
 

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Amazes me how even some single mom's these days are acting like they're entitled to everything if they're hot. Talk about delusional.
 

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SoCalMike said:
Amazes me how even some single mom's these days are acting like they're entitled to everything if they're hot. Talk about delusional.
meh, the non-hot ones feel entitled as well
 

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Yeah this is ridiculous. I responded nah i don't think so. Shes like really? She then spiels about her ex husband again. Bletch, I just don't respond to it. Shiat they divorced 2 years ago. WTF? Said she hasn't had sex since then either. Probably lying about that. Attention *****?
 

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Of course women can never accept responsibility for their actions, that would require introspection, which they lack.

But why are you guys expecting that women actually take responsibility for their actions? If they did that, that would make them men, and that'd be gay.

Dummy said:
Looks aren't everything which she seems to think that lookin hot is key to everything but being a decent person is not.
You can't possibly be in shock over this. After all, us guys screen so heavily on looks, after a while, girls get the idea that being hot pretty much is everything.

We created the monster.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Trader said:
You can't possibly be in shock over this. After all, us guys screen so heavily on looks, after a while, girls get the idea that being hot pretty much is everything.

We created the monster.

Created a monsta!
Created a monsta!
But nobody wants it!
But nobody wants it!
Created a monsta!
Created a monsta!
But nobody wants to kill it!!


You are absolutely correct. A generation of worthless men has produced a generation of worthless women. Men drool and snivel over hot, air-headed women instead of pumping and dumping them like they should, and now that's all we've got. :p

Women end up being shaped by the presence and influence of the masculine energy/figures around them. A time full of emasculated men yields a crop of shapeless women.
 

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So I decided to just befriend this baggaged single mom broad just to have some chick to bs with that I feel indifferent about. I just tell her whatever is on my mind. It is rather funny though. Like yesterday she started blabbing about her ex husband again. Blabbing about how he's not really keeping up on child support and how he's trying to get full custody of the kid. She's all like I dunno what to do.

I'm like hell if she doesn't wanna know what i think about some assclowns dumb decisions in life she shouldn't tell me because the truth hurts lol. So in my infinite wisdom I just flat out tell her: "I dunno what to tell you. Well you let some stranger you obviously didn't fully know cuminside of you. Ya know condoms are cheap and you must've never paid attention in sex ed in high school because precum can knock you up too. And then get married just because you had a kid and you weren't smart enough to avoid getting preggers and ruining your life at a young age. Shoulda thought about having morals and self respect for your body. Sounds like some Jerry Springer trailer trash episode. haha. I gotta get back to work."
 

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She told me everyone makes mistakes. Nobody is perfect. Holy criminy ****ballz batman. lol. Getting knocked up cuz you are too stupid is a mistake? getting married thinking it's the right thing to do because you were pregnant? Some people have no morals and make me sick. wow.
 
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