"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Taking up the WOMS challange, but what should i do?

Rint

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WOMS is Weapons of Mass Seductions by Senior Fingers. He says get your ass off the computer and TV, and do something else, but i dont know what to do. I'm not exactly king at my school so i'm not invited to hang out everyday so i dont know what to do. Can u guys help me out?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WesCottII

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Go to the gym, play a sport.

Anything that gets you socialising.
 

KnockoutJM

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Go for a walk around your town, go to a store or the mall, and just be around people. Just get out of your house, and get comfortable with the environment.
 

LordGrin

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yea dude, start socializing ...dont be a keyboard jockey, hang arnd wid ur frends, or go to the library or play sum sport or rather pikup a hobby wich keeps u active (remote control car racing is my hobby). just THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX
 
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