"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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djweses89

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yea i consider myself a decent DJ now not the best but ive been having a lot of problems with girls have b/fs and stuff, just need some advice how to make them stop liking there boy friend and come my way.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think the basic rule is if you want to pursue a girl whos taken, just treat her like any other girl.. You can only take girls who want to be taken or are bored or feel detached from their partner.. A good sign is they wont mention their bf but if they do **** it.. move in.. ask them out, if they come out try kiss em like u would a single chick..

The %'s are lower but just treat em like u would any single girl is what i mean. Oh and DONT talk about or ask about her bf.. if she brings it up say "lets talk about somethin fun instead of ur problems"
 

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djweses89 said:
yea i consider myself a decent DJ now not the best but ive been having a lot of problems with girls have b/fs and stuff, just need some advice how to make them stop liking there boy friend and come my way.
why waste all that time and energy on takin chicks when you could snag a single one with less than half the trouble?

is it really worth it?

you guys worry me sometimes :down:
 

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djweses89 said:
yea i consider myself a decent DJ now not the best but ive been having a lot of problems with girls have b/fs and stuff, just need some advice how to make them stop liking there boy friend and come my way.

Perhaps if you started talking to the boyfriends, and study how they were able to attract the type of girls you are lusting over, you would have more success.

If you were a true DJ, they would look for ways to leave their man, and go for somebody who is a better catch, you, wouldn't they?
 
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