"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Taking the girl

djweses89

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2006
Messages
166
Reaction score
0
yea i consider myself a decent DJ now not the best but ive been having a lot of problems with girls have b/fs and stuff, just need some advice how to make them stop liking there boy friend and come my way.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

anointed

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 17, 2006
Messages
94
Reaction score
1
Location
AUS
I think the basic rule is if you want to pursue a girl whos taken, just treat her like any other girl.. You can only take girls who want to be taken or are bored or feel detached from their partner.. A good sign is they wont mention their bf but if they do **** it.. move in.. ask them out, if they come out try kiss em like u would a single chick..

The %'s are lower but just treat em like u would any single girl is what i mean. Oh and DONT talk about or ask about her bf.. if she brings it up say "lets talk about somethin fun instead of ur problems"
 

Raikojo17

Banned
Joined
Oct 22, 2006
Messages
982
Reaction score
5
djweses89 said:
yea i consider myself a decent DJ now not the best but ive been having a lot of problems with girls have b/fs and stuff, just need some advice how to make them stop liking there boy friend and come my way.
why waste all that time and energy on takin chicks when you could snag a single one with less than half the trouble?

is it really worth it?

you guys worry me sometimes :down:
 

Gangster Of Love

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 27, 2002
Messages
2,574
Reaction score
66
Age
52
Location
Los Angeles
djweses89 said:
yea i consider myself a decent DJ now not the best but ive been having a lot of problems with girls have b/fs and stuff, just need some advice how to make them stop liking there boy friend and come my way.

Perhaps if you started talking to the boyfriends, and study how they were able to attract the type of girls you are lusting over, you would have more success.

If you were a true DJ, they would look for ways to leave their man, and go for somebody who is a better catch, you, wouldn't they?
 
Top