-This tip is to be taken as a fun tip, not as a deadserious one. It might be fun, but still, useful.
What are characteristics of what you would like in a girl? What are characteristics that you are NOT interested in a girl?
You've probably read about knowing exactly the type of woman you want. I propose something slightly different.
List the positive, and negative, characteristics, a woman can have. Black hair, funny nose, very high pitch voice, moles, caucasian, asian, short hair, likes pop music, hates pop music, loves your favorite artist, is into taosim... etc etc.
Make up a list.
Then, when meeting, different women, you go scoring them. Points less, points plus. Example:
You first meet her, and evaluate her:
-She is caucasian, 2 points plus
-She has long hair, 2 points plus
-She has a sexy mole, 2 points plus
-She uses boots, one point less
-She has bigger hands than yours, 3 points less.
And so on. Then, when you get to meet her in a non-physical level.. you continue to evaluate her:
-She talks about her bf too much, 3 points less.
-She likes the Backstreet Boys, 2 points plus. *
*!!
-She likes reading, 2 points plus
-She loves animals, 5 points plus.
-She treats the waiter well, 3 points plus
-She likes to watch too much tv for your taste, 3 points less
As you've seen.. maybe your list of negative and positive characteristics doesn't cover the "treats the waiter well".. but you notice it, and take note.
Another thing to emphasize.. As you've seen, there are different scoring. Maybe her loving animals is a biggie for you, while her having boots isn't that big of a deal, but you'd like her not to.
Take points when she is late, when she swears, if she likes pop bands, when she doesn't say good night/day/morning to people... all up to you. Maybe add 2 points per date, 4 points per kiss. 2 points less for resisting a kiss.
Now, you can also bring your notebook to dates and such. If she asks, you tell her the truth, you are evaluating her. You can even show her (if there aren't some things that might offend her). Done right, this makes her prove herself, prove to you that she is worthy. And is fun for you and her. Be picky, search out for details, it's pretty damn fun. Look out for details, like if she prefers garfield over snoopy.
So, let's put the goal for her to be considered as a LTR, to be 50 points. Maybe let her know this also. Maybe push it up to 60.
Maybe she needs 20 points for you to call her for a second date. And 30 for a third date... and so on.
Oh, and be strict, if she doesn't pass, too bad. Though, if you want her to pass, find more good characteristics for you to spend time with her.
*I'm assuming you are totaly familiar with the DJ Bible, and already have some experience with DJing.
What are characteristics of what you would like in a girl? What are characteristics that you are NOT interested in a girl?
You've probably read about knowing exactly the type of woman you want. I propose something slightly different.
List the positive, and negative, characteristics, a woman can have. Black hair, funny nose, very high pitch voice, moles, caucasian, asian, short hair, likes pop music, hates pop music, loves your favorite artist, is into taosim... etc etc.
Make up a list.
Then, when meeting, different women, you go scoring them. Points less, points plus. Example:
You first meet her, and evaluate her:
-She is caucasian, 2 points plus
-She has long hair, 2 points plus
-She has a sexy mole, 2 points plus
-She uses boots, one point less
-She has bigger hands than yours, 3 points less.
And so on. Then, when you get to meet her in a non-physical level.. you continue to evaluate her:
-She talks about her bf too much, 3 points less.
-She likes the Backstreet Boys, 2 points plus. *
*!!-She likes reading, 2 points plus
-She loves animals, 5 points plus.
-She treats the waiter well, 3 points plus
-She likes to watch too much tv for your taste, 3 points less
As you've seen.. maybe your list of negative and positive characteristics doesn't cover the "treats the waiter well".. but you notice it, and take note.
Another thing to emphasize.. As you've seen, there are different scoring. Maybe her loving animals is a biggie for you, while her having boots isn't that big of a deal, but you'd like her not to.
Take points when she is late, when she swears, if she likes pop bands, when she doesn't say good night/day/morning to people... all up to you. Maybe add 2 points per date, 4 points per kiss. 2 points less for resisting a kiss.
Now, you can also bring your notebook to dates and such. If she asks, you tell her the truth, you are evaluating her. You can even show her (if there aren't some things that might offend her). Done right, this makes her prove herself, prove to you that she is worthy. And is fun for you and her. Be picky, search out for details, it's pretty damn fun. Look out for details, like if she prefers garfield over snoopy.
So, let's put the goal for her to be considered as a LTR, to be 50 points. Maybe let her know this also. Maybe push it up to 60.
Maybe she needs 20 points for you to call her for a second date. And 30 for a third date... and so on.
Oh, and be strict, if she doesn't pass, too bad. Though, if you want her to pass, find more good characteristics for you to spend time with her
.*I'm assuming you are totaly familiar with the DJ Bible, and already have some experience with DJing.