"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Taking pictures with women

Conquer

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During my graduation I took a lot of pictures. I noticed that you can tell a lot bout a women by the way they pose in a picture with you. You can tell if there is an attraction and how high her self esteem is. Just felt like sharing that. What do you guys think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mr_rogers

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Conquer said:
During my graduation I took a lot of pictures. I noticed that you can tell a lot bout a women by the way they pose in a picture with you. You can tell if there is an attraction and how high her self esteem is. Just felt like sharing that. What do you guys think?
You can see the same thing in person if you're able to be calm and analytical enough. A lot of guys aren't able to slow down and really see things when they're in the heat of the moment.
 

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Response to Mr.Rogers:

I dont mean the actual pictures. I mean the gesticulations and such while preparing to take a picture.
 

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Taking pictures is a good prop. Even better is if a girl/group asks you to use their camera. So so easy to run a set with it.
 
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