"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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taking photos of you and your date?

HappyHarryHardon

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do you guys take photos of your date or both of you? and maybe put it on facebook later? i always see people with photos of each other on facebook with their heads together. kinda cute. maybe save it for when they become your gf?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Iceberg

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What you're seeing on facebook is probably pictures of couples. Not someone you've been on a couple dates with.

Terrible idea.
 

Masculinity

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Iceberg said:
What you're seeing on facebook is probably pictures of couples. Not someone you've been on a couple dates with.

Terrible idea.
Posting pics of you and a first date screams neediness all over the place.
 
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