"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hi,
I have been seeing this girl now for about 3 weeks, and so far its been going pretty well. I've been ****y/funny the whole time and she calls me all the time, but I try not to talk to her too much so she doesnt lose interest. So far, we've had like 3 good makeout sessions where we went for like close to an hour, but those times her parents were in the house on the floor above us so we couldnt do any more than make out.

I'm seeing her tonight at my place, and no parents will be home at all so we have the house to ourselves. What would be the best way for me to go from making out to say, 3rd base. I don't think shes ready to f*** yet, so I'm going to take it a little slow with her, but I'm not exactly sure the best way to move up from making out.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ok good job on the first paragraph, now to your problem. What makes yout hink she doesn’t want to have sex? A lot of the problem we have are internal and this is one of them. Have you every heard of the quote that says “when you assume you make an ass out of you and me” well your not only making yourself look like an ass your also telling her that you are sacred. Second thing I have no idea what 3rd base is, I never did I don’t think about “bases” your either getting laid or your not, so go GET LAID.
 
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3rd base is fingering a girl...

and i know she doesnt want sex because she has told me whenever it has come up...she says she wants to wait a couple months until she knows me better. Prom is coming up in a little more than a month and that is when I figure i'll f*** her, but for now I just wanna move it up past making out.
 
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Originally posted by WannabeDonJuan2
3rd base is fingering a girl...

and i know she doesnt want sex because she has told me whenever it has come up...she says she wants to wait a couple months until she knows me better. Prom is coming up in a little more than a month and that is when I figure i'll f*** her, but for now I just wanna move it up past making out.
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Oh god SOMTHING is wrong if you goal is to FINGER a girl, smh, email me IF you ever fugg her
 
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where i'm from, 3rd base is getting head. i'd just whip it out and push her head down there...she'll get the idea lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some help...

yunghova35: I'm gonna have to disagree with you here my friend... Not everything is about having sex, and as WannabeDonJuan2 said... She DOESNT WANT IT YET, and he is a REAL MAN for respecting her. This isn’t just any chick, this is his girlfriend, and if u ask me, I think that WannabeDonJuan2 is good bf material and is doing a good job. He respects her, AND he is seeking advise on HOW to do things with her, which shows he cares, so insulting his CORRECT behavior in a relationship is not necessary.

WannabeDonJuan2: To answer your question... If you want to go from 1st base (kissing) to 3rd base (fingering) then what u need to do is set the mood and make her "hot". She needs to be comfortable with you... So what I would recommend is that after making out (kissing) for about 10 minutes you move on to 2nd base... then after a while (when u can see that she is "hot") SLOWLY start undoing her pants and see how she reacts to it.. DO NOT RUSH it. Now while your hand is busy undoing her pants etc you continue 1st and 2nd base, then slowly start fingering her, and remember to be VERY gentle to start off with. After a few minutes of her getting use to it, and YOU getting use to it, start experimenting with her, see what feels nicer to her etc. If she does not orgasm, then don’t be let down, because seeing as though its her 1st time, she prob wont orgasm.

That’s pretty much how you should move on to 3rd base (fingering)... Just go slow, read her body language when u start undoing her pants etc, see how she responds, and let her know that if she doesn’t feel ready then its ok.

Well I hope that helped and if u have any further question, feel free to ask;)

Good Luck...


Laterz...
 
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