"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ever since i started field approaching like crazy i get numbers easily like at least 5 numbers a week and their not at clubs im not 18 yet their at like the mall and on the street those random places. Have any of you guys gotten to the point where you not just get her number but take her somewhere that same day that exact moment and at least make out with her? Like an example you see a girl walking down a random street might be day or it might be night doesnt matter and then you talk to her but instead of you getting her number have you made out with her right their or taken her to like a spot that same day and made out with her?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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theirs gotta be someone that has done it lol this is the website of the legendary don juan
 
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if it was on a video then i wouldnt be suprised if it was all just an act but that would be a great opener if you think about it. Just walk up to a girl and be like hey im making a video to make myself look cool(say it with like a big smile) and be like you have to pretend to be really attractedto me and then makeout with me . it would probably work to im not trying it though lol
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Day Game is definitely much different than night game, day game happens at a much slower pace. Night game is usually where all the exciting stuff goes on, bathroom pulls, same night lays, what have you.

Don’t forget Mystery’s golden 7 Hour rule, it usually takes about 7 hours of interaction before any decent girl is willing to take that step with you, ESPECIALLY during the day when she’s sober and her buying temperature isn’t going to be extremely high.

So don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying you can’t push the interaction, but in the grand scheme of things, don’t rush them too quick, you’re doing just fine right now doing what you’re doing, keep it up and play it smart, take it step by step.

-Kevin
 
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