Taking it to the next level...

[Triple T]

So I've always wondered this.

How do I take it to the next level with my gf?
Currently, I've gotten as far as making out and thats it.

Suggestions on taking it to the next level?
How did some of you guys do it?


She is abit of a christian girl, so shes pretty religious and it'll be hard to break her. But I'm sure with the help of my fellow DJs I can pull it off

Just to let you know, We've been going out for about 2 months or something like that... I don't really keep track haha

 

[SinJester]

Get her really turned on, then back right away. Repeat untill she caves in.

 

[Smack]

So I've always wondered this.

How do I take it to the next level with my gf?
Currently, I've gotten as far as making out and thats it.

Suggestions on taking it to the next level?
How did some of you guys do it?


She is abit of a christian girl, so shes pretty religious and it'll be hard to break her. But I'm sure with the help of my fellow DJs I can pull it off

Just to let you know, We've been going out for about 2 months or something like that... I don't really keep track haha

A problem here is that you want to 'break' her. You shouldn't want to 'break' her - sex should be spontaneous and should happen because both parties want it to happen. If she wants it to happen bad enough, it will.

Has she explicitly stated that she is against sex before marriage, or sex before a certain age, or anything? Have you even tried to take it to the next level? If you haven't even pushed for it yet, then you're riding on assumptions - never a good thing. You're assuming that she probably won't take it to the next level, so, in a sort of self-fulfilling-prophecy, she probably won't.

Go in with the mindset that she wants it bad (biologically, she probably does; mythology doesn't affect a woman's biology) and you can give it to her. It will be enjoyable for you both and you're not going to judge her for it. It's amazing the amount of 'Christian' girls who fornicate.

But you won't know until you try.

 

[Triple T]

Get her really turned on, then back right away. Repeat untill she caves in.

The only way I know how to get her somewhat dirty is using those mis-intrepretations. And when she plays along then she is turned on.

Any other examples?

You're assuming that she probably won't take it to the next level, so, in a sort of self-fulfilling-prophecy, she probably won't.

You got it straight on man. Thanks.

Both you guys Repped

 

[SinJester]

Triple T, what you can do is get her turned on by talking dirty and heavy making out. Then brush over her tits or pvssy but move your hand away so she doesn't have time to object if she doesn't like it. Keep doing it and eventually she will let you go further because it just feels right. Then when you start getting her really turned on stop completely, just walk away. She will wonder what happened and come back for more, get back into it and go a little further then back away again.

You get where I'm going? You can get her turned on by being physical as well. If she isn't in the mood then tickle her and be playfull at first. You don't need to do exactly what I did that's just and explination example, use it in your own way.

Another thing you can do is *gasp* just talk to her about it! Seriously. This line works wonders: "I don't know if I'm ready, but when I am I want to do it with you". Do it in person, use your on variation if you want, see how that goes.

Hope I helped =D

 

[true romance]

get her a massage, go slow and let her enjoy then stop....ask her to reove the cloth..proceed..

also..be a surprise...when Ipark a car in my building garage, I just go for it, grab the girls and kiss, make out heavily..touch her breat..etc she love it because it was spontaneous and anyone can caught us..

Or bring your wing man..barcadi..if she is tipsy..she will be horny..

 

[Axcell]

Use sexual innuendos. Look it up.

 

[SinJester]

Also: Get her drunk =P

 

[Triple T]

Thanks guys. Good advice as always
I'll try that stuff today when she comes over for our movie marathon

and haha, too bad she doesn't drink ...at ALL.
What a good girl ,

 

[shaunuk]

turn it from a movie marathon to a sex marathon

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

Also: Get her drunk =P

I'd be careful throwing out that suggestion to a guy who is trying to get his virgin girlfriend to have sex with him. The last thing this guy needs is some religious girl having got drunk and doing something she wouldn't normally have done, the parents finding out, and them coming after him.

 

[Smack]

Yeah but that only happens in America.

 

[noirsake]

Also: Get her drunk =P

yeah, that would land you some prison time for rape.

 

[Triple T]

ah don't worry guys, I'm not that dumb or desperate.

 

[SinJester]

Gosh can't you guys take a joke!

It isn't rape if she is drunk and consents to it. Just like it isn't rape if you have sex with someone and at some later time she begins to regret it. In any case I wasn't serious.

If she is really religous, your just going to have to talk to her about it. Maybe get her in a frisky state of mind first?

 

[shaunuk]

drunken sex ain't rape, why do people seem to think that? Fact is, if you cold approach in a nightclub, a girl is MUCH more likely to have ONS with you if she's been drinking. Not always necessary of course, but most ONSs usually involve alcohol.

Triple T: if she wants it, it'll happen, just escalate. Get her horny and start taking her clothes off. You might have to go through the other bases first, some girls have been like that with me But most importantly, don't be afraid to escalate. If she's not comfortable, she should say so, but don't worry about that happening mate

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

I know it was a joke; I'm not trying to be a downer. I'm just saying to be careful (for the OP and everyone on the forum). In some jurisdictions, a person may be unable to consent if heavily intoxicated. We're off on a tangent now, though. Just be weary of taking home a girl that is too drunk. It can blow up in your face later.

 

[metalfan20]

well, we've established the fact that you guys are making out right. try to make out lying down. next you try dry humping. Like what shaunuk said you might want to try taking off her clothes it seems to work at least in my case unfortuntely my girlfriend won't have sex with me until I'm 18 (she's 18).

 

[rkc09]

So I've always wondered this.

How do I take it to the next level with my gf?
Currently, I've gotten as far as making out and thats it.

Suggestions on taking it to the next level?
How did some of you guys do it?


She is abit of a christian girl, so shes pretty religious and it'll be hard to break her. But I'm sure with the help of my fellow DJs I can pull it off

Just to let you know, We've been going out for about 2 months or something like that... I don't really keep track haha

I hoped she doesn't break. She's a saved young lady and your trying to get her on the wrong path. She has found love in GOD and she understands the true way of life and that is obeying GOD comes before anybody elses needs. I bet if she's a real Christian she probably wants to wait until marriage for sex so don't go trying to change her ways. Sorry but I'm a Christian before I'm a Don Juan. I'll make sure to pray to GOD that your AFC ways stop you from getting laid!!!!! :crackup: But I'm dead serious. I hope you fail.

 

[Smack]

I hoped she doesn't break. She's a saved young lady and your trying to get her on the wrong path. She has found love in GOD and she understands the true way of life and that is obeying GOD comes before anybody elses needs. I bet if she's a real Christian she probably wants to wait until marriage for sex so don't go trying to change her ways. Sorry but I'm a Christian before I'm a Don Juan. I'll make sure to pray to GOD that your AFC ways stop you from getting laid!!!!! :crackup: But I'm dead serious. I hope you fail.

Yeah, shining example of Christianity this - praying that some other dude you don't know doesn't get laid.

But whatever, the mythology that she follows isn't getting in the way of her biology. I can tell you that.