"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Taking it further; Do it in private!

NHY

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Ok, you see this hot looking girl at work / school and you want to ' meet ' her. Well, take my advice, do it in private! Trust me, I don't know how many AFC's ( Myself included ) would screw things up and say it in public.

I guess the only way many AFC's, and I still consider myself one, is going to learn is though trail and error, but at least I did something about my fear!

In short, tell her you need to tell her something in private and then tell her your feelings for her. Do not, I repect, DO NOT, say it in front of everyone at work / class, etc, you'll only embarrass the girl and yourself!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Miles Davis

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While its okay to take a girl in private to talk to her, it's not okay to do it in fear of getting embarassed. That's called being a wuss. Also, don't tell a girl your feelings for her when you first meet her. This is what will lead to the embarassment you speak of, first and foremost. I see that you're new here, I can understand why you made these points... but after reading up on the material on this site, you'll change your tune.

Good luck to you.
 

jonny football hero

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Good idea in theory. In practice, how would you get her "privatley"? if you follow her round you'll just get busted by the police for being a stalker. Just grab your balls, walk up and talk to her. Trust me, she wont think you are creepy.
 

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If you wanna meet a girl, don't meet in her in private and tell her your feelings. This is probably one of the worst things to do and will probably scare her away. I think doing this is kinda AFC.
 

Satan Psycho

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First you tell a girl you don't know that you have something to tell her, and bring her to somewhere private. This will surely put her at ease. Then of course you tell her how you feel about her. I'm not sure if I could handle all the tang I would get using these techniques. :rolleyes:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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