Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Taking her on a picnic: any ideas?

someguyuk

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Hi guys

Im taking this girl, for our second date, for a picnic. My reasoning being:

a: She hates staying indoors
b: Its different
c: I can incorporate some action elements in there (kino etc)
d: Its cheap (Im a student, and im piss poor)
e: The weathers nice, it'd be a shame to miss out on it.

So, basically I was wondering, has anyone got any advice on what I should be making or taking? Any advice on how to get some decent kino going in this situation?

Basically, anything helpful and beyond "You suck :crackup: " would be awesome.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Deadly_Ripped

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if you do a hard hiking trail to a picnic spot you might be boosting her or pulling her up. One thing I did with a girl once was suggest that we eat lunch in a tree. I had to give her a boost and there was a little kino. Plus I got to muscle my way up after her to show off my strength. There are tons of ways. For instance later she and I collected tadpoles from a small pond, and I anchored her while she leaned out over the water so we were holding hands and then I held it a little after she was securely on the shore.

Anything that takes more than just you or her by yourself is an opportunity for kino, and any time you see something beautiful or out of the ordinary you can lean close, put your fingertips on the small of her back while looking into the distance, point, and be like "look, see that?"
Hope this helps
 

DJ HOSSIX

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From My Experience,

The One And Only Food That Was Fun And Included Kino Is

S'Moressss.

If You Play Your Cards Right, You Can Get Her To Make You A Smore And Wipe The Gooey Marshmallow Of Your Lips And Lick It.

Its Also Fun
 

SamePendo

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No I dont.

You suck.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Make sure that you arrive there before sunset and stay through it,reason of this is not to be "romantic" but convey the idea that you are on a 3rd date the same day (same principle as changing clubs/bars in a night).Make sure you relocate to higher grounds to "see the sunset".The difference day@placeA and night@placeB will have the effect that u took her on 2 separate dates,though making the nighttime your 3rd date and would make her more comfortable around you.
 
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