"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Taking her on a picnic: any ideas?

someguyuk

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Hi guys

Im taking this girl, for our second date, for a picnic. My reasoning being:

a: She hates staying indoors
b: Its different
c: I can incorporate some action elements in there (kino etc)
d: Its cheap (Im a student, and im piss poor)
e: The weathers nice, it'd be a shame to miss out on it.

So, basically I was wondering, has anyone got any advice on what I should be making or taking? Any advice on how to get some decent kino going in this situation?

Basically, anything helpful and beyond "You suck :crackup: " would be awesome.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Deadly_Ripped

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if you do a hard hiking trail to a picnic spot you might be boosting her or pulling her up. One thing I did with a girl once was suggest that we eat lunch in a tree. I had to give her a boost and there was a little kino. Plus I got to muscle my way up after her to show off my strength. There are tons of ways. For instance later she and I collected tadpoles from a small pond, and I anchored her while she leaned out over the water so we were holding hands and then I held it a little after she was securely on the shore.

Anything that takes more than just you or her by yourself is an opportunity for kino, and any time you see something beautiful or out of the ordinary you can lean close, put your fingertips on the small of her back while looking into the distance, point, and be like "look, see that?"
Hope this helps
 

DJ HOSSIX

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From My Experience,

The One And Only Food That Was Fun And Included Kino Is

S'Moressss.

If You Play Your Cards Right, You Can Get Her To Make You A Smore And Wipe The Gooey Marshmallow Of Your Lips And Lick It.

Its Also Fun
 

SamePendo

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No I dont.

You suck.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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GloriouslyInsane

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Make sure that you arrive there before sunset and stay through it,reason of this is not to be "romantic" but convey the idea that you are on a 3rd date the same day (same principle as changing clubs/bars in a night).Make sure you relocate to higher grounds to "see the sunset".The difference day@placeA and night@placeB will have the effect that u took her on 2 separate dates,though making the nighttime your 3rd date and would make her more comfortable around you.
 
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