"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Taking girls of pedestals

Dynasty32

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What tips or tricks do you guys use when it comes to taking girls off the pedestals? That is my main problem when it comes to approaching girls even the ones I've known for sometime now. So what tips or tricks do you use?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Don't put them on one in the first place.
 
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Dynasty32 said:
What tips or tricks do you guys use when it comes to taking girls off the pedestals? That is my main problem when it comes to approaching girls even the ones I've known for sometime now. So what tips or tricks do you use?
This is where you fail, "Tips and Tricks" are for breaking bad habits and nothing more those who rely on these for their life game are doomed to failure.

Love your life, Do everything with purposeful passion when you are with this woman you can be the most interesting man but you must do so without being her doormat. There is nothing wrong with being the chivalrous man who has manners BUT this does not mean you pay for everything either for after all these woman want equal rights.

Stop being controlled by your d*ck and start thinking with your head. Stop making pvssy the end game for life.

There are so many ways to approach this I could go on and on with tips and ideologies but most times it goes on deaf ears to those who are to weak to bear the temporary pains that come with swallowing that red pill.

You must read the books written on this website and continue to think inwardly and figure what your goals and aspirations and once you light that fire in the pit of your stomach so long as you tend to it no woman will douse that burning fire.
 
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Espi said:
Having passion, etc. is great and will help, as will a large bank account, a nice car, and a well-built physique. I consider ALL of these attributes an equally important piece of the puzzle. Being a passionate man isn't enough for me. The libido is a strong impulse and I'm not going to act like women aren't an important aspect in feeding into that impulse.

For me the key to de-pedestalizing women comes down to having OPTIONS. When I'm involved with several women I will naturally gravitate toward only the ones who treat me the best. I have no time to waste on the ones who make things difficult for me. I find that the women who are interested in me usually make things easy for me.
Maybe I worded my response poorly but I agree with Espi.
 
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