"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Taking game to the next level.. get her to pay your rent

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I'm serious here guys. I've been visiting this site for years, and I don't have a problem getting laid anymore. I'm ready to take it to the next level and I may have a chance.

I met a lady a few years older than me. She has no baggage no kids or ex husbands or anything like that. She is ripe for the pimping.

I've been laying the pipe superbly and she has been coming over every weekend. This girl is rich, super educated, great job nice car, nice place. The works.

Me on the other hand, I am struggling to pay my damn rent. Now, the big question, How can I get this babe to pay my rent?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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tell her your going to move a little out of town...

Shell ask why, then you say that rent in the currnet area is killing you.

That way you indirectly propose the question without sounding like a ****..

Peace

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yea, and give her the sad droopy-eyes.
 
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But if I lie and say I'm moving she's going to ask details and I'll be caught in a lie. Women HATE it when you lie to them. They will be gone faster than a speeding bullet.

My friend said I should just ask her straight up to pay my bills. I don't feel right asking her to pay anything, but I gotta keep the pimp hand strong.
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
But if I lie and say I'm moving she's going to ask details and I'll be caught in a lie. Women HATE it when you lie to them. They will be gone faster than a speeding bullet.

My friend said I should just ask her straight up to pay my bills. I don't feel right asking her to pay anything, but I gotta keep the pimp hand strong.
Ask her to help you, so she's not necessarily putting down her whole weekly salary.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She'll own you when she pays your rent for you... Imo, I wouldn't help for support, just go eat at her place, shower, crap and let her clean your clothes... Saves you time, money and life couldn't be easier. But by making her pay for your rent, that's just not done IMO
 

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maybe you should get a damn job.
 

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Mate women dont care about details.. The dont think about wether your lying or not. The only thing they look for is where you believe what your saying.

It like when you tell a chick that you love her. She doest rationalise it.

Tell her rent is killing you and that your looking to move away. ..

If she feels for you enough she will ****ing work towo jobs to pay your rent.

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50 hours a week at $20/hr and you can barely afford the rent? That's around $3,000 take-home a month. Do you live in a penthouse suite in Beverly Hills?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LMAO. Can you not afford to pay the rent or do you not want to pay the rent?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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One of my friends sits at home all day drinking beer. He has no job. But, his fat girlfriend with a kid from another dad. Has a job and pays the rent... :crazy: LOL But, I like them both their good people.

Basicly, you just gotta show her you like her. Tell her what she wants to hear and move in. Plus, she is rich!! You can't do nothing with a broke b!tch...
 
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IsiMan84 said:
50 hours a week at $20/hr and you can barely afford the rent? That's around $3,000 take-home a month. Do you live in a penthouse suite in Beverly Hills?

I don't live in Cali but I do live in one of the most expensive areas in the USA. Probably 3rd on the list after Cali and New York. And still, 3 grand a month is nothing for a guy living by himself these days.
 

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Vlad the Impaler said:
I don't live in Cali but I do live in one of the most expensive areas in the USA. Probably 3rd on the list after Cali and New York. And still, 3 grand a month is nothing for a guy living by himself these days.
you know, when i read the title of this i was eager to read this coz i love **** like this, getting girls to buy you stuff, etc..., and people like you are my type of guy

but this last quote pissed me the **** off. dude, you make twice as much as me and you are saying that 3 grand a month inst enough to live on? i have lived off way less living in hawaii and made ends meet. are you buying meth or coke all the time? save your money, you pathetic *******

but if it does work out, more power to you, im jealous, now go cry me a river
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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strey said:
you know, when i read the title of this i was eager to read this coz i love **** like this, getting girls to buy you stuff, etc..., and people like you are my type of guy

but this last quote pissed me the **** off. dude, you make twice as much as me and you are saying that 3 grand a month inst enough to live on? i have lived off way less living in hawaii and made ends meet. are you buying meth or coke all the time? save your money, you pathetic *******

but if it does work out, more power to you, im jealous, now go cry me a river
Don't hate bro..2,000 of that is gone every month so I can keep my place and all the bills get paid. So that leaves 500 a month for gas, food, and going out and whatever else. I usually don't even bring in 3 grand that's when overtime is available.

So please explain how you lived by yourself in Hawaii making less? I don't buy it.
 

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Vlad, you should probably stop impaling people and start learning about money management. If you cannot live on $3,000 a month you are obviously doing something wrong. You can reconsider your priorities and see if you are living beyond your means.

As for suckering a girl into paying your rent, that's just low. It's something worthy of being on Dr. Phil. Women Beware: Men who mooch.
 

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Maxtro said:
Vlad, you should probably stop impaling people and start learning about money management. If you cannot live on $3,000 a month you are obviously doing something wrong. You can reconsider your priorities and see if you are living beyond your means.

As for suckering a girl into paying your rent, that's just low. It's something worthy of being on Dr. Phil. Women Beware: Men who mooch.
Pretty much a +1 to everything here. If you're struggling to afford rent, get a cheaper place.

Why try to mooch rent money from her? Just comes off as deadbeat-ish and low to me.
 

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3k is a nice sum. But 50 hours per week...no time to play.
 

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Plain and simple find a cheaper place, or get a room mate.

If you're living alone, then you don't need a big place, which means you are paying way too much for rent. Yes fancy pads are nice, being broke because of it isn't.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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