"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Taking down an Alpha Female

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to make this short, theres this HB8-9 in my class(homecoming candidate back in high school). I finally got to meet her now in college, and she totally acts like a self-absorbed btich and not to mention extremely arrogant(in front of me and 3 other ppl that came to the same conclusion about her). It wasnt until after class today that I realized that she was like an alpha male except female. Now after seeing how her personality is, id put her in the fcuk buddy category. She has such a high pedastal for herself its ridiculous...I know this is stupid, but I wanna knock her off that sh!t. Any suggestions?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women like that feed off of attention. Don't give her any! Go on in life as if she never existed. She's not worth your time.
 

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Okay first of all I'd say this is a side project at best. You definatley don't want to make this your number one priority in college as there's lots of other things to do with your time...and time is truely all we have. I do think that might work to your advantage if indeed you want to go through with this. However knocking off a matriarch in a b*tch clique isn't always the easiest of task. Since you're making this thread, I'll go ahead and assume that you're not the all star quarter back at your college or the head of any fraternity. Not that you need to be either but that would make this conciderably easier because of the level of social proof that comes along with it. There are many ways that she could be toppled either at a bar or at a college/fraternity/serority party. I know how I would do it but I think outside the box when faced with adversity, you may not be so lucky. Making her a FB is definatley not going to be an easy task so much as making her a conquest (which is what I'd go for...mainly for the social proof I think), concidering she'll be getting it from all angles like most first or second year HB9's get in college.
 

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Rather than knock her off her pedestal, shouldn't you try to bang her first?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PRMoon said:
Okay first of all I'd say this is a side project at best. You definatley don't want to make this your number one priority in college as there's lots of other things to do with your time...and time is truely all we have. I do think that might work to your advantage if indeed you want to go through with this. However knocking off a matriarch in a b*tch clique isn't always the easiest of task. Since you're making this thread, I'll go ahead and assume that you're not the all star quarter back at your college or the head of any fraternity. Not that you need to be either but that would make this conciderably easier because of the level of social proof that comes along with it. There are many ways that she could be toppled either at a bar or at a college/fraternity/serority party. I know how I would do it but I think outside the box when faced with adversity, you may not be so lucky. Making her a FB is definatley not going to be an easy task so much as making her a conquest (which is what I'd go for...mainly for the social proof I think), concidering she'll be getting it from all angles like most first or second year HB9's get in college.
Yea, you're right im not in a frat or captain of the football team, but dont get me wrong im not exactly a wimp either. As far as college levels go, im a 4th year and 21 and i believe shes in her sixth(she may be 22-23). Yea, she just bugged the sh!t out of me was all. I KINDLY offered if she wanted to join me and a friend of mine to do the take home test coming soon and she lashes at me with "well, you guys better give me right answers because im gonna get pissed.". See, I can understand that response if you're going to join a group of morons(which we arent), but I couldnt help but feel as if though she was underestimating me/us. Nowadays, I dont take attitude like that especially from b!tches.

Eccentric said:
Rather than knock her off her pedestal, shouldn't you try to bang her first?
That was on the agenda until I found out she had a BF. But regardless, id still love to donkey punch her.
 

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make fun of something about her in a funny way but make sure she feels the neghit of it
 
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