"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Taking care of your reputation...

moldingcheese

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How do you guys take care of your reputation? I m sure no one wants to be known to girls as a horny guy that hits on every girl he sees.
I have 450 ppl in my grade. There are about 20 hot girls... so sad. So how much DJing would be good without making your reputation bad???
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Zod

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Originally posted by moldingcheese
How do you guys take care of your reputation? I m sure no one wants to be known to girls as a horny guy that hits on every girl he sees.
I have 450 ppl in my grade. There are about 20 hot girls... so sad. So how much DJing would be good without making your reputation bad???
Good question, I'd say if you are in one of these mock high school relationships then don't hit on any girls. But if you aren't you can hit on as many girls as you'd like.
 
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Inquire

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look for girls outside your grade or outside ur school.
 

Smooth Player 056

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I flirt but I usually dont DJ with girls in my own class. I DJ on break if i see a girl i dig, or at lunch or after school. Just dont do it exessively like 1/3 of the girls uve macked on in the school then it becomes ridiculous.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=81390

That link above has one of the greatest high school techniques ever used.


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Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Creator of "The Smooth Player 056 HS Technique"
 

S-lemond

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mack on all the girls you want, the ones that think ur horny, prob want you! lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jenzos

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Originally posted by moldingcheese
How do you guys take care of your reputation? I m sure no one wants to be known to girls as a horny guy that hits on every girl he sees.
I have 450 ppl in my grade. There are about 20 hot girls... so sad. So how much DJing would be good without making your reputation bad???
be proud for those 20 girls. We have like 3. probably like 5 in the whole school! haha. Definetly get away from the school. Useless. They are more for fun/backup type things.

Here is how i think of it. Get more guy friends first, go to parties, meet different kids from all aorund the area (I have met girls who live down the street from me but i didnt even know it!) You will then start knowing more people, having more friends, then you can work on meeting girls at parties/hangouts or whatever ya'll do.
 
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