"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Taking birth control every other day

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I’m gonna make this short because I typed out a novella off my phone which took ages and now is gone so I’ll gloss over.

I bought a morning after pill on Sunday, my friend Katie convinced me at lunch so she’s got me one (men can’t buy them here) and we went back to mine to chill for a bit.

That evening the girl rocks up to my place with loads of food. I produce the pill she flips out saying I’ve insulted her and she feels hurt. I told her she’s hurt me not taking the pill properly while I’m busting nuts inside her obliviously. She then refused to take it, “I can’t it will mess with my body... it will hurt I’ll get cramps”

The girl whose idea it was told me it just bring a period forward nothing radical. I ask why she’s acting like it’s an abortion pill and to take it or we’re done and I have nothing more to say to her. “Do you really not want a baby with me that badly” as if she asked that, too ms y red flags for me to address that in the heat of the argument.

Next she says where did you get this, wa sit a real pharmacy, show me the receipt. I had to dig the bag out of the bin ffs to show her. She kept making up excuses and I was just like wow... she really doesn’t want to take it. She made me promise if I took it I wasn’t going to break up with her anyway. She took it, we lay in bed and slept, woke up for work and left.

I haven’t seen her since although we’ve been texting. I’m debating whether to just quit and run now or wait a couple weeks.
You need therapy dude. I see kids in your near future. Congrats?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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