Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
lolOriginally posted by MDgood
...and the other is not much more than a rapist.
LOL a no win situation.. ur either too considerate or a rapist.Originally posted by MDgood
...and the other is not much more than a rapist.
Dang... so I guess I'll be considerate and when she say "stop". I stop.Originally posted by Ar7
LOL a no win situation.. ur either too considerate or a rapist.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
if she consents to it, wants to do it, is good enough looking, and i of proper age 16 and for me
then why not?
Most guys move too slow on dates. The rule is "stop" when she says "stop." But the other rule is, don't wait for a green light. In other words, assume a green light as you escalate the physical approach.Originally posted by spanky
Well, I personally believe that one of the biggest difference between a guy who gets laid a lot and one who doesn't is that one of the two is too considerate.