"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Taking a week off can make me shrink this much?

MattB

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I took a week off weight training to rest my injured hand. ( i mignt need to rest more:( )

A friend of mine saw me today and said
"hey u shrunk. before u looked like a guy who works out, now you are just like everybody else":(

Is this nomral?
During the week I didnt touch weights at all..
oh crap I hope I can recover my lost size
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Great Juan

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I'd say your friend was bull****ting you. It is recommended that you take an entire week off every couple of months and let your body rest. There's no way you can suddenly shrink, you aren't a balloon dude.

Does your friend work out too? Maybe he's jealous of you trying to better yourself and is trying to put you off your game or something. If this isn't the case, i apologise, but some people would rather pull you back to the bottom than climb up to the top with you.
 

Lt dan

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maybe it ws just a mental thing. him knowing you havent been working out and him expecting you to be smaller or something
 

enkai

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your muscles didnt utlize glycogen that your body had, either that or you didn't take in enough carbs so your muscle cells can size up when you usually take a week off
 

andyh

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hell no you won't shrink in one week.
One week off now and then only helps your body to recover.
if you eat enough during this week you'll notice when you start to lift again that you actually have gained strenght. If you don't belive me go search a bodybuilding forum. they'll tell you it's importent for muscle growth that you take a couple of weeks off every year.

sorry for my bad english it's not my primary language.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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xyzzy

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Originally posted by andyh
sorry for my bad english it's not my primary language.
You fooled me, then. :D

Anyway, I agree with the posts here, taking a week off isn't going to turn you into the "sloth" victim from
Se7en. In fact, you did a good thing.
 

Jay26

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You should take a week off every six months or so, it's actually good for you, I recently did and if anything looked bigger cos I was more rested. You can't lose all you're muscles in a week that's just ridiculous.
 
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