"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Taking a Trip

TheTrimReaper

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Wassup guys,

I just wanted to post this before I leave. I'm taking a vacation with the New Year's girl I posted about in my "epic" thread.

Anyway, we are heading down to some isolated and unknown beach in Nicaragua, actually in the Carribean for a couple weeks. It looks like paradise.

It might be soon to do something so big with this girl, but I don't care. True, we've only been intimate for a short time, but I have known her for a really long time, regardless. I feel like I'm doing this for me and she is just with me to make it better. So I think I'm doing it for all the right reasons.

Anyway, I sat back today, and thought about what I was like in October....what I was like in November....and even what I was like in December getting over my breakup. Wow, I'm doing soooo much better.

I don't think this is a succesful, "Hollywood" ending for TheTrimReaper, but it definitely kicks azz, doesn't it?! I'm really looking forward to this trip and feel like I absolutely deserve it.

Anyway, take care guys and "Sarge on"!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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STR8UP

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Have a good time, and don't forget to pack your "supplies"!
 

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Good to hear your doing good Trim!!! Hope it all works out for ya.

Lets see what was that saying.... All things happen for a reason??

Take care dude,
 

TheTrimReaper

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STR8UP,

SFS front with skin in the rear perimeter. I don't know what happened with this one; I had ordered a full SFS but oh well. Looks absolutely natural. Girlfriend has no idea. I'm gonna use blue tape and Next-Gen in the front on vacation and maybe do a cleaning when she isn't around mid-week. I plan to post some pics in BA's forum. I'll let you know if my piece washes away in the Carribean and winds up in Cuba or something. Might be the first Toplace there! Dude, when you get your piece, b1tches are gonna be callin' yo name!

Rob,

Good to hear from you man. Have you seen the ex around town lately? I'm sure it's not so bad anymore right?! I took my GF to a small town on the water near where I live. The ex moved there a few months ago. I was kind of wishing we would have bumped into one another while I was out with my new chick but that was just my ego talking to me. No biggie. We had a great time. We are leaving for our trip in the evening and I'm positive we are gonna have a blast!

K1ck azz and take names out there ya'll, Trim

We are leaving tomorrow and I'm sure we are gonna have a blast.
 

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Originally posted by TheTrimReaper
STR8UP,

SFS front with skin in the rear perimeter. I don't know what happened with this one; I had ordered a full SFS but oh well. Looks absolutely natural. Girlfriend has no idea.
With my first order the only thing that worries me is my sides being so thin. I'm gonna order some of the Kerasome and hopefully that will solve my problem.

I'm gonna use blue tape and Next-Gen in the front on vacation and maybe do a cleaning when she isn't around mid-week. I plan to post some pics in BA's forum.
So at what point do you think you would tell her? That's the great debate. I don't know how I am going to handle breaking the news to future love interests. My problem now is the fact that I am pretty much busted by the chick I've been messing with lately. She tried to take off my hat last week (remember, I was completely shaved and now I am trying to grow the hair in without anyone seeing) and now she is kind of obsessed with seeing me with it off. Gonna have to tell her if I manage to make any more progress with her physically.

I'll let you know if my piece washes away in the Carribean and winds up in Cuba or something. Might be the first Toplace there!
LOL....I can't imagine someone finding a low density hairpiece. Before I found toplace I wouldn't have known what the hell it was!

Dude, when you get your piece, b1tches are gonna be callin' yo name!
That's what I like to hear!

For some reason I have managed to "get back on the horse" pretty quickly since my last breakup, so I can only imagine what a renewed sense of confidence will do to further improve my game.

I need to order a few supplies, but other than that I'm good to go. The pieces are on the way and I already talked to my buddy about having his girl (the "lesbian" that hooks me up with all her friends!) cut it in for me. He seemed to think it was a good idea. Now all I have to do is wait until I get it, attach the sucker, and hope she's cool with it all and continues to introduce me to more potential new bisexual nymphos like she has been :)

Have a good trip, and email me when you get back. You didn't think you would escape the hairpiece mentor thing, did you?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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