"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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blueline

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I do not want to get attached. Unfortunately, she's hotter than the girls I'm currently banging.

What are specific things to avoid doing with the single milf?

I'm way out of this girl's league in every aspect except looks. I've got a good career to look forward to eventually, already have a degree, I'm a PhD student, I make enough money to have a bit of extra cash to throw around etc. She's a college drop out single mom working at the dollar store.

It's somewhat scary how simple she was to pickup given her level of hotness. She really reminded me of the openness and sexual confidence that my bipolar/bpd ex girlfriend had.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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f283000

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blueline said:
It's somewhat scary how simple she was to pickup given her level of hotness. She really reminded me of the openness and sexual confidence that my bipolar/bpd ex girlfriend had.
brother you're already going about this with the wrong mindset and if you keep this up you will fail with not just her but all women.

She's a college dropout single mom that's already up there in age or getting there.

You're a phd student with a decent income who's got youth on his side.

YOU ARE THE PRIZE!

Not only that but you talk about not getting attached but you haven't even gone out with her yet! What kind of s*** is this? She could have yellow teeth and smoke breath and you don't even know it because you haven't even gone out with her yet!

The moment you start putting a woman on a pedestal when you haven't even gone out with her yet that is a sure recipe for failure.

Not only that but with MILF's you need to go out with the mentality of sexing her in a few dates as possible and that's it. MILF's aren't looking to be in relationships with young guys they want action and that's what you should give them.
 

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Don't be intimidated by her looks. Whenever I run into a hot chick who's on the job, I automatically think to myself "If you were as hot as you think you are, some millionaire would be flying you first class somewhere right now..........instead, you're working here on a Sat."
Of course I don't voice this, but it is projected in my attitude so I'm not nervous in front of her......
Like a previous poster says, you're the prize, not the other way around.
 

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This reminds me of the Married with Children episode where Peg and Kelly detect the same scent at the same time and go rushing towards the front door past Al...."I smell MONNNEY!"

Kick up your game with this one, the good news is you will gain invaluable insight into how hotties think and act. Use it to learn. Remember, you are the prize, don't pay past the first date, make HER pay.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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