"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Taking a Girl Out. Smooth way to move her from bar to place for sex?

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She sent me a text last night saying she would love to go dancing. Good/bad move? There's a lounge/club close to the bar I'm taking her. We could go there after. But it could get pricey.

In your experiwnces, does moving to a club help?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I offered to pick her up at her place and she said she can meet me there. Is this a bad sign? I don't like when girls do that .
 

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So went out last night. Did my thing and ended up taking the girl to a hotel. Not how I want to things going forward because of financial aspect and also because I think some girls feels slutty about going to a hotel. She half jokingly said she felt like a ***** going to a hotel. We went either way. I faced some LMR. She saying that we barely know each other. We had sex. It was freakin great. I dropped her off at her house. She texts me that she is in showwe and in bed and for me to text her when I was home. She said thanks for a great night. I told her I had a great night with her that she's fun and sweet.

After sex I made sure to tell her it was amazing and that she was great. Women say they don't like when guys come and just go to sleep so I was awake and bring affectionate but she was kind of distant after.

She came first, missionary. I then turned her around for doggy style. But she was a bit resistant and said it hurt her a bit. Is that position better used later and not the first time? I felt like she felt too exposed.

What advice do you guys give me moving forward. Do I text her later in the day to say hello. I don't want her to think I just wanted sex and that's it. That she won't hear from me again. I think there was some comfort missing. If we were to go out again and know more about each other the sex would get better and better.
 

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How do I get her to become a plate and hooked on me so she's available whenever I want her.
 
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