"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Taking a girl home from the club....

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http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=80301



After you've done the previous tip in that link, all you have to do is this.

You: So what's going on afterwards?

Her: I don't have anything planned/I don't know/probably going home..

You: Well let's hang out at my place.

Her: Ok/sure..


That's it. It's that easy. I've even gotten so lucky that after I ask the first question a girl has even said "hopefully partying with you."

Or if she turns it around and asks what you're doing, then just say "well, I wanted to see if you wanted to hang out"

Then if she says something like "ok" then you can say something like "your place or my place." It's always good to have a place to take a girl home to afterwards since a lot of girls prefer going to your place but if it's an older lady (25 and up), they won't care, you may even be able to hit it in the back seat of your car :D . But it's a MAJOR PLUS if you have a place to take a girl back to.

It always helps out if the girl has had some alcohol in her also. Liker I said, this works once you have the first tip figured out, you can't just go to any random chick and expect it to work, althought it could but once you've done the whole EC thing, and got the girl comfortable with you, it's a piece of cake.
Also older girls are REALLY EASY.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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good post once again
 

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It also helps if you can draw on something you've discussed with the girl and use it as additional incentive.

For example, in the course of talking up a girl I'll usually ask her what type of music she listens to, and tell her about some of my favorite bands (music is a major interest for me). So then at the end of the night, I'll say something like "So why don't you come back to my place and we can listen to some of the music I was telling you about?" Giving her an "excuse" to go home with you can be VERY helpful because it lowers her Anti-Slut Defense.
 

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Interpol, remove that link on your sig
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What do you know, it's not on your sig.
 

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If it works

If that works for you, cool. I think Deangelo's is really good. That's where you propose a mini-date on the spot, take her by the hand and carry the girl to either another place club/bar etc or another part of the club to create the psychology of "now she's with me" so that the girl has an excuse to herself for going home with you without feeling like a slut. The minidate technique changes the mind frame from you two being strangers who are mutually attracted to going somewhere 'together.'

Good post though.
 
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