Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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sup fellas

i have a problem: i have no problem approaching girls (i do but its not as bad as it was when i was younger) but now some of them (mainly coworkers) don't take me seriously enough when i want to go out with them; ive been shot down twice b/c of it, and im wondering wat i could do to show that im serious, for future reference, i don't give a s*hit about these girls anymore......but in the future......

yes i know its bad to date coworkers, i was just wondering wat type of advice i can get......thanks alot
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Body language maybe??

You could be saying all the right stuff but your body language is betraying you insecurity.

Do you know anything about suing body language to your advantage?

Ninja out
 
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