"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Taken chicks too friendly

051AV

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A young woman I guess you could call her young she's around 33-34 years old she's been married once, kids of course, she's with a steady guy for a few years.

She can't stop smiling at me her eyes wide open she gets all giggly, likes joking with me, awfully friendly, when she's with other women she hangs with she acts like she's known me for years. Think to myself you get awfully excited around a guy you barely know. I have no intentions of ever getting involved with her I play a long and be friendly back, she makes me laugh the way she acts.

I have lots of taken women either married or in LTR act oddly around me, the older women they can be really friendly they will talk, they get all giggly, usually blushing. One of the younger married ones that disappeared I've talked about,talking to her 2 weeks ago fvck she started blushing. She was red as a coke can, her face, neck and upper chest, giggling and smiling. Thinking to myself you are one strange broad you cut off all contact with me and I didn't see you around for a year now you act like this with me.

Why can't I find single unattached women that act friendly with me, the available ones around where I live are jail bait for me they are 18 and over but too young for a 40 something guy to be going after. The young women they just fvcking stare and don't say a word you can barely get a fvcking hello out of them I know they talk because they talk to guys their own age.

Why can't I bet a beta man and repel women? :confused:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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zekko

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Why can't I find single unattached women that act friendly with me
You have to remember that women who are taken are very comfortable being around men (they live with one, after all). They are also looking for validation that they are still desirable to other men, and they will always enjoy talking to other guys, it's exciting.

Meanwhile, single unattached women are often more nervous and uncomfortable around men than their taken counterparts, and may not have honed their flirting skills to the same degree.
 

machoMax

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As zekko said: "...They are also looking for validation that they are still desirable to other men...", that is explanation.
 
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