Take the offer F it

[EastvsWest]

So I think I need a break from hitting on chicks. I have been having really bad luck lately and it's killing the confidence a bit. It's not that I don't go out and be social, have fun and meet chicks, because I do. It's just the follow through on it all. Chicks with Boyfriends, Flakes that give the number and never bother to pickup/respond, and online chicks where you think things go well but they are so picky, that they pick the ripped dude to replace you because it's the new meat market. All annoying and having issues establishing plates.

I think the issue right now is the need to get laid. It's driving me to go for 2nd dates on chicks that I really don't think there is much of a connection, and probably not a lay either, but I push. And it's not working....so here comes the question for you all.

I have this work friend. She is super cool, skinny, tall, nice rack, and a decent face. We have been friends for a couple of years and go drinking and talk **** to each other all the time. A few months ago fcuk buddies came up during one of our conversations.(We are open to this stuff) We even have a lay bet that I said I was not going to give a **** about bar chicks anymore and just bang at least 6 this summer. She bet I wouldn't. So a couple weeks ago we were out on the weekend and the chick says to me...Hey I think I should be your 1-6. I was a bit buzzed and kinda blew it off, but asked her again last week about it and she confirmed. But here is the problem. We have been close a few times in the last 6 months but it's never happened. I think we both don't want to change anything at work...we get along great. So it's a tough call but I am just about ready to say FCUK it and take the offer. Maybe this will help me get my mind off sex when talking to chicks....who knows.

I know the dangers of both office sex and fcuk buddies. I have done the fcuk buddies before and the chicks get all pissed when u break it off. I think this one would be maybe 90% against 10% for developing feelings so the chances are slim. The office thing? Well just today we were talking about some other employee that everyone thinks is banging another employee. We both were like F that we would keep it on the down low so I think we might be leading to just doing it. Is it worth it?

Oh and before everyone starts saying hit the gym, lose weight, gain confidence, blah blah blah. I have been working out and have gone from 6'1" 230 to 208 in 6 months. I am growing my hair out on my chick friends request...they like it, and my confidence is truly at a lifelong high until recently. I approach way more than I ever have in my life. The results just fcuking suck. Thanks dudes.

 

[WoodB]

I made the mistake years ago and laid a chick where I work for about three months. We weren't Fbuddies but we were not officially an item either because this broad was dipping into her ex boyfriend at the same time. Really sucked. No matter what they tell you,chicks do talk and the next thing you know, half the women at work will know what your woody looks like, etc. Luckily, this chick left the company, but that may not always be the case.

 

[Greasy Pig]

In 20 years working, I've fvcked about 13 chicks I was working with. Some ONS and some FBs. Nothing long term.
Luckily, I never had an issue with huge dramas at work. Awkwardness, yes. But nothing really bad.
The only really bad shyt with work girls was the ones I tried to fvck and failed.
My biggest motivator was curiosity.
I'd spend all day fantasising about these women, so there was no way I was going to bail when the opportunities presented themselves.
I certainly don't recommend it. I've just been insanely lucky. But part of me says you should bang this chick and just get it out of your system.