"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Take the 20 approach challenge.

ElStud

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Well basically I was out today and for whatever reason, I challenged myself to approach 20 sets in one day... the results? Well, I got 5 numbers, so I got succeeded in atleast a quarter of those sets. One girl even sh*t tested me with "I have a boyfriend" and I plowed through it and got her to give me her number, with her boyfriend standing right there. But yeah, I know it's hard, trust me I did it, but take the 20 approach challenge. Basically all you have to do is... approach 20 sets in one day. You don't have to get their numbers, you don't have to have success in the set, but you must simply, approach.

But what is the purpose of the challenge? Well, one of the purposes is, getting good at just going from one set, to the next set, without thinking about the last set too much. Secondly, if you have approach anxiety this could help you. Thirdly, this'll help you push yourself to approach when you don't really feel like it. Lastly, it'll just overall help you improve with approaching women.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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guywhoneedshelp

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Around campus I'll just talk to random people. Mention an observation, "cold out today", something like that. Some hot girls will really stop and talk.
 

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Im gonna troll all your post you make and see this. We know you can approach, congrats, youre amazing. Get a F*CKING date! Just one date and people may actually think youre not as big as a tool as you seem to be.
 

young_gun

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$100 says that number wasn't real.

She just gave it to you so you would leave her the F alone. I'm guessing she wasn't too charmed by your Yoshi noises.
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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