"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Take that Biznatch :-)

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Last weekend I went out of town to see my friend and at a party he introduced me to his cousin (I wasn't going to do anything more than talk no matter what) from Maui who was a solid 8 looks but acted like a total c*nt. I acted really confident and smiled but our convo started like:

lucas: Hawaii is beautiful, how do you like living there?

maui: It sucks.

lucas: What could be so bad about Maui?

maui: really expensive and nothing to do.

lucas: I heard a lot of great vacation spots like Maui were really boring and thats why everyone went. :~)

maui: whatever.

here is where everything changed with the neghit/insult/teasing (whatever you call it)

lucas: wow, I didn't notice it until I started talking to you but your hair is really blonde (touching it) too bad it affects your personality so much.

maui: WHAT?!?! (moving from three feet away to a few inches from me) It's the sun in maui, I am a brunette and I don't act like a blonde!

Her interest level hit the roof after that comment.

lucas: That's too bad, I only date blondes.

Then I walked away to talk to some other girls and she stood there staring, dam it was great!

lucasilf
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I really liked the "i only date blonds" part! well done lucasilf


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Originally posted by Ledoyen:
I really liked the "i only date blonds" part! well done lucasilf


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Thanks, you have no idea how interested that got her. She obviously hadn't been treated less than a hot maui chick before in her life. That party was a week ago at my friends house 5 hours from me. Last night I had thrown a graduation party and invited my friend (her cousin) and another friend (guy) to come down to it and she came with him to see me even though this was her last weekend in town before she goes back!

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Originally posted by lucasilf:
Thanks, you have no idea how interested that got her. She obviously hadn't been treated less than a hot maui chick before in her life. That party was a week ago at my friends house 5 hours from me. Last night I had thrown a graduation party and invited my friend (her cousin) and another friend (guy) to come down to it and she came with him to see me even though this was her last weekend in town before she goes back!

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Wonderful job Lucas!

I'm heading to Hawaii this weekend. Maybe I'll spot that btch from a different island.
 
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The glare for her manipulative ***** a$$ and the over heated hotair bag she calls a head will signal you.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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thumbs up to you man ! that how this type of *****es should be treated
 
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