"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Take Risks

SmooveMooves

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Too many of the guys I know nowadays sit back and let life happen to them. They rarely make any big decisions. They rarely gamble, and they hardly put themselves out there.

In fact, a lot of guys don't like going through with things unless they're absolute sure. They contemplate: 'Did that blonde give me the eye? Should I go talk to her?' and then they eventually rationalize against it it because they weren't exactly sure.

What I'm getting at, is don't be like my buddy Mike who sits back. Great experiences come from doing things out of the norm, out of your comfort zone. It's easy to let your life fall into routine, i just experienced it, and was in a funk as a result. If you see an opportunity go for it and if you fail, learn from it.

Look I ain't trying to sound like a motivational speaker, I know you guys hate that stuff, I do too. But too many guys, in my RL and here come asking for a step by step plan.

-'Should I kiss her'
-'Should I dump her'
-'Is this the right move?'

Life isn't to be planned out. Often times people ask me why I always have so many stories to tell and I'm young as hell. I always answer the same way. 'Because I do crazy Shít'

I'm not saying to be wreckless, but we men as a whole need to stop being so damn cautious as well. We can't possibly always 'play it safe'

Fam, Men are beings of action, we make decisions and support our decisions even if we're not 100% sure.

When you look back on life, you should be regretting choices you made, not not making a choice in the first place.

-Smoove
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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mangotot

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When it comes to women, in certain circumstances, definitely take risks. For instance if you doing a high powered well paid job, don't hit on the secretary or someone else for that matter. It could have effects. But if you standing in the grocery queue and you see a hottie, there is no reason to ignore her. Just Do it.

Great post bro.
 
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