“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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While I agree with most of the post and discussion within this forum, I take all advice and tips with a grain of salt. I fear sometimes that budding DJs might take to heart everything mentioned in here and become egotistical and trying to hard to be alpa.

What’s important is the basic idea. Kind of like religion. The idea is important. The basic idea that budding DJs should get from all this crap is:

-Be confident in yourself
-Girls do like having sex
-Getting a girl is not your priority in life, it is yourself
-Set a variety of goals
-Always try to improve yourself

And that’s it really. Simple. Ignore the noise about over exaggeration of these basic themes and ideas. There may be more common ideas as well but that is what I have gotten from all of this about 2-3 years ago, and now I am in a happy relationship while remaining ambitious.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah but.. Why do chicks crush on cerain guys but not others?

The points you posted were good and all for ourselves but it really won't answer the question or even help us get laid.. just make us happier people.

It's not explaining why some guys get laid and others don't. And so far every explanation of that has been proven wrong.
 

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Bvbidd]Yeah but.. Why do chicks crush on cerain guys but not others?


The same reason some like Ferrari over a Porsche. It is all about tastes. This is a decent post. Being happy is the TOP answer, make no mistake about it!
 

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like Ive been telling people the whole time. Dont listen to the idiots on the board. You have to decide who the idiots are though.
 

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Bvbidd said:
Yeah but.. Why do chicks crush on cerain guys but not others?

The points you posted were good and all for ourselves but it really won't answer the question or even help us get laid.. just make us happier people.

It's not explaining why some guys get laid and others don't. And so far every explanation of that has been proven wrong.
There must be a reason why, not every hot babe desired to be with me, yet a few did, why I don't know.

I've known guys who at least 50% of the hottest babes desired, but they didn't read any seduction technique books, or anything like that, the girls just liked them for some unknown reason.

I've known other guys who no pretty girls ever desired to be with, yet they were friendly types of men, but no girls ever wanted them to be their boyfriends.

I have also known guys who the hottest babes normally didn't desire to be with, but they ended up in a long term relationship with a gorgeous girl all the same.

There must be a reason to all of this, but I don't really understand it all myself, but as I am 38 and my Wife is a HB8 21 year old I am very happy indeed, but only 10% of the girls like this would be attracted to me in this way. :up:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yeah but why do some guys have more girls liking them then others?

I can tell you it has nothing to do with the reasons the site gives.
Just some unknown reason, this site is against luck but it can't be explained.

Also why do so many fall for PUA stuff?
 

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Well yeah obviously nobody on this site actually knows (I mean it is a website afterall..) but neither does some random guy, but for a site about that very idea, it's kind of disturbing it's not even close.

I know when you actually get out there in life this site is still way off. When some guy understands what's really going on, does he just not use the internet anymore or what?
 
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