Take It All Or Back Off?

[Paid Laid & Made]

Hey Guys.

You all know about my woman at this point, from previous threads. I am having her come over tommorow, she will end up at my place. Now if I am presented with the chance of going all the way, should I take it or should I keep the kissing and feeling up and leave the rest for another time? She is a virgin and most girls end up hating their first guy.

I am thinking if I leave it alone, I could keep her around ... due to her trust in me having doubled as I was presented with a genuine chance and did not take advantage of it or I could seem like pu$$y for not taking it.

Oh and she is 17 ... what is the saying 14 will get you 20? I am scurred of being somebody's GF in Prison.

Let me know what you guys think.

 

[Quick]

Most girls end up hating their first guy only if he screws them over. Otherwise, they usually remember them fondly, especially if he makes it nice for them.

If she's willing to have sex with you tomorrow, then you won't be taking advantage of her. She'll have already decided long before that she was willing to sleep with you. You might not hurt yourself too much if you decide to stop, but you're not going to get any brownie points by not sleeping with her if she gives you the opportunity.

If she gives you her virginity, she's going to stick around, for a much stronger reason than any "trust being doubled". Because she really likes you and she already trusts you. Plus if you're going to analyze it like that, you being her first will build a stronger bond than not sleeping with her.

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Thanks.

I was thinking of that. I am just paranoid, I guess. Things are going real fast right now for the both of us and I want to make sure that its not one of those hasty female decisions which she will regret in the morning.

 

[Colt45]

Some times you just have to go for it and hope for the best. If she realy like you she won't make you someone's b1tch in prison.

 

[jbrunner_ipa]

......go ahead and go for it. I'm still naive enough to hope that maybe i'll end up marrying a girl who still has her virginity.