Take Her Lack of an Answer as Her Answer

[Maximus Rex]

Women are (for the most part,) the most non-confrontational people on the planet and they'll do their damnest to avoid potentially unpleasant situations. The irony is that they're not doing this to spare their feelings, they're doing it to prevent themselves from feeling any sort of discomfort or awkwardness.

As men, we have to see the writing on the wall and realize when a woman isn't trying to f*ck with us, When she says she's going to hit you back (either via phone call, text, Facebook,) and she doesn't, she ain't trying to f*ck with you. When you ask her out and she does something other than say, "Yes," she ain't trying to f*ck with you. When she flakes on a date, she ain't trying to f*ck with you? When you to arrange the date and she a$$es around about trying to reschedule, she ain't trying to f*ck with you. When you're experiencing instances such as this, as the title of this thread states, take her lack of an answer as her answer.

 

[Sofomore]

Truth to this post. Texted a girl last night about meeting up tonight. No reply- move on to the next.

 

[DonGorgon]

anything that is not a YEs is a NO...FACT.... when a females wants you she will make it perfectly clear.. things only get confusing when she is not that into you

 

[bigneil]

True, and we should have enough women going that we can detach ourselves from the outcome of any one.

Unless she gives you the green light, back off. Make her come to you. Also, don't expect instant results. Often a girl will flake early on but then 2 weeks later will return and a relationship can form, so never send a nasty "you didn't reply" message. It is bad for so many reasons. If you do send the "Grande Finale" text, it MUST be humorous and NEVER mean. You'll be surprised sometimes that the girl is indeed interested.

Act the way you would if YOU were rejecting HER. You wouldn't be mean about it, you'd just be apathetic.