"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

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Take her home?

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I got to know this girl 2 weeks ago at a party. We've been talking and kinoing all the time at the party. When it came to goodbye I just got a kiss on the cheek.
I had a date with her last Saturday (playing pool and going to a bar later) and it was pretty much the same.
What do you suggest? I'd like to take her to my home, because it shouldn't be difficult to kiss there or even have sex.
But I live with my familiy, so that's a problem.
Should I ask her to come over to watch some movie or should I go out with her on a "regular" date (maybe going to the cinema this time) and ask her later to come to my home?
She has got her own appartment, do you know a way to get there?
 

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Walk her to her place, kiss her, stand there for a sec (not in a desperate PLEASE INVITE ME UPSTAIRS sort of way - but ina confident, I had a great time tonight sort of way). She'll understand she can ask you up.

BTW., you're 22, why don't you have your own place?
 
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