“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Take Control!

NHY

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Hey you, yes you, Mr AFC! I'm talking to you!
I'm going to tell you this and I want you to take this all in you in, if you can stomach it all as this is quite blunt and may hurt you soft, senstive, wussy feelings!

' Why are the women always rejecting me? ' ' Why do they go for the jerks? ' Does she like me or not? ' ' Why?Why?Why? ' GEEZE, WHY SO MANY F***ING QUESTIONS!!!??? Your doing my head in!
Being a Don Juan is a State of MIND, not tricks that you most memorise, you sorry Shambles, yes, your state of mind right now is a SHAMBLES, S-H-A-M-B-L-E-S, SHAMBLES, that what it is!
Why the heck do you flush out your sorry life story to everyone you meet as if your flushing a toilet? These people are F***ing LUAGHING AT YOU behind your back! They're saying ' God, what a loser ' or ' Wimp ' or ' Wuss! '

At this stage, you might as well as paint the word ' Welcome ' on your back and lie down and the ground and let people use you as a doormat to wipe off thier sh!t on YOU and once there are done with you, they FORGET YOU without second thought! Its not just women are doing that, EVERYONE ELSE is!

Think about, how many friends do you have, Really, I mean REALLY? What do they think of you? They hardly think ' Oh WOW, its Mr Cool! ' rather ' God, I feel sorry for him, I best avoid as much as possible to stop me hurting his feelings! ' See? Deep down, they too think your a LOSER as well as the chicks your desperate to get! What do you do at weekends? Yes, I hardly guessed, your stay at home, ON THE PLAYSTATION PLAYING GTA OR POSTING HERE AT ' MASTER DON JUAN ' LEVEL! UGH, what disaster we have here on our hands!

I guess you do daft things to get noticed every once in a while, thats NOT earning you respect! Its ATTENTION SEEKING and the only thing its doing is HEIGHTING others DISRESPECT for YOU, though it may not look like it! Attention seekers have no respect, either for themselves or by others!

So, what are you going to about it, I guess you'll be CRYING like a F***ING BABY Later! THEN YOU'LL FEEL EVEN WORSE! Well, like I said before, being a DJ is a STATE OF MIND, YOURS right now is in a sorry state! You think this is all a bad dream, well I've got news for you, THIS NOT A F***ING DREAM! THIS IS NOT THE BLOODY MATRIX! THIS IS REALITY! You made your life miserable though the way you THINK, not anyone elses Thinking!

' So, NHY, how do I got about fixing myself? ' you ask me, with tears in your eyes, I slap you and shout at you ' Well, first, STOP CRYING FOR F*** SAKE! Real Men only cry if they HAVE TO and if so, they do it IN PRIVATE, NOT IN FRONT OF ANYBODY! TAKE CONTROL! STOP LETTING OTHERS DO IT, ITS YOUR LIFE, NOT OTHERS, YOURS AND YOURS ONLY, TAKE CONTROL! '

' What is Control? ' You ask, wiping the tears away from your face ' Well, I answer that question, taking Control is about doing one simple thing, learning to say NO, yes thats right, learning to say NO! '

For example, next time someone dares to do something stupid, like slap a girl you like in the ass ( and in The process, making them hate you even more, if they don't hate you enough already )
Say ' NO! ' to them and WALK OFF! Issues with Parents / Siblings bothering you? GET THE F*** UP AND TELL THEM IN THIER FACE! My own path to Happiness started this way, confronting a parent over an issue that was tearing ME apart!!

Next, any Hobbies? Focus in MORE on them! I want to see you winning a prize because your Hobby! It may even become your CAREER! My own hobby may very well become the basis for my career, I like drawing and have intentions studying Graphic Design in College!

Anyone giving you disrespect? TELL TO F*** OFF! You'll soon have plenty of friends and the option to dump ones who don't respect, keep the ones who do! Then eventually, you'll be what is called CONFIDENT, then and ONLY then, will the women you want will want you!

There are Many Good sources on this site that you can read up, for starters, I'd recommend reading and doing Chalenge Guy's ' Buried Alive ' Exercise, this is a GREAT exercise to do, it could be the one that will shake you out of your wussy, AFC state! After that, I recommend The all the posts in the Bible by the Legandary Pook, in particular;
' Kill that desperation! '
' Be a Man! '
' The Secret of the Jerk ' ( Long, but mind - numbing! This is a MUST READ! )
But don't stop there! Read the other posts! GET OUT MORE! TRY EVERYTHING!

So, you get me now? Its up to YOU now! Yes, you! We'll be here to help you along the way, but in the real world, YOUR ON YOUR OWN! I wish you the best for your future, YOUR IN CONTROL!
 

LikRetsam

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The post was a pain to read and it was just rephrasing other "great" posts. This is trash. That and the fact that you bumped your own post. Maybe if there are 140 views and 0 replies is a SIGN.
 

khanboy

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Geez, that was harsh to get through. What is with some of you guys and believing that you have to be forceful in order to get your point accross. Ever notice how when someone points something out to you, you absorb their point better if it's straightforward and simple rather than complex and forced.

The same goes for when you make an argument that you present to yourself. Perhaps you should try something more simple and straightforward when looking at taking control of your life.

For instance, get a peice of paper, split it into two halves. Mark one side "Days used to become a Don Juan" and the other "Days of the wussy boy." For each day you approach X number of chicks without hesitating, mark it under the former. For all those days under X, or containing some form of hesitation, mark it under the later. Sooner or later you are going to start realizing you have to change what you do in order to become who you want.

My above suggestion can of course be altered to contain rewards and punishments. Some guys like to force themselves to write essays or some **** on days of no action (read some one into this a while ago).

All you really got to do though is relax, at all times,
khanboy
 
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