"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Take a Stand for Internet Neutrality.

A-Unit

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Here's the link, in the event you're skeptical or haven't heard...

http://www.thenation.com/doc/20060828/internet_bill

As it stands, providers would like to do to the internet what has been done to cable, cut it up, layer it, and charge more for a variety of customizable services. There's MORE to this ever-changing plan, but it's dumbfounding, yet capitalistic in its base, that companies want to go this route, while blinding the American public.

If such laws passed, using Verizon for instance, you might gain access to a certain level, based on what you pay, and businesses would have a different level. It would not only be differentiated at the SPEED level, but ACCESS, and CONTENT. It would also enable government agencies greater oversight into the information flow, tracking far better what you view and where you go. The long-term ramifications of such laws are similar to that of the Patriot Act, passed after 9-11. The Patriot Act has been also referred to as the Patriot act because it seeks to drive out all Patriots and put them under the spotlight for all to view. No longer does privacy remain. Perhaps neighbor to neighbor, but all purchases, all balances, all possessions, and now all information you ever access, purchase, or view is been cataloged. Only, this "profiling" war is being done behind your back.

Consider that, UPC labels on food in conjunction with your plastic CREDIT/DEBIT card build a massive database of what you buy and where you buy it. You didn't think the UPC labels were unique because the company tracked them? Sure, they help # the product, but the bigger picture, which marketers AND the government LOVE about it, is that it PROFILES you, so marketing can be customized, and so like a caged animal, you're tagged with a marker that knows in ADVANCE what you likely do. When you likely shop. What products you buy that indicate your level of wealth, spending, and how the economy effects your purchases over time.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow! :(
 

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I clicked on your link, and went to the website. The first thing that popped out was a propaganda poster saying "Is Bush spying on you?". So I closed the window.

I don't even need to read the article to know it is most likely emotional, with little hint of logical analysis and journalistic ethics.
 

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In a nutshell, the big backbone providers such as Verizon are worried about being marginalized. They don't wanna just be the "pipe", because there's not much money in that.

What they're really after is making the big content providers like Google pay up the wazoo for guaranteed QOS (quality of service) to their content. It's pretty much blackmail, where they tell a company "pay us extra, or access to your site will be really slow".

Of course, they'll still want the end user to pay extra, with the same threat against their VoIP service, because they don't make much money off of POTS (plain old telephone service). So unless you want your VoIP service de-prioritized, then you'll pay the ransom too.
 

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Considering the size of Google, and the lack of incentive the IPs are providing...I doubt this will go beyond step 1. Ironic how the Big Boys are protecting us.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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