Take a cheater back?

[Krarr]

Dated this girl for 6 month, she was my first (I was 23 her 18)
3 months ago I learned that she cheated on me one week after we got officials. ( Not drunk,With a previous ****buddy of her and that she kept talking o him when we were together, she didn't cheat again tho)
After learning that I left her and went immediatly with someone else both as rebound and to make her suffer, this new relationship is over now.
In this last 3 month the cheating ex has done nothing but cry and send me lettrr and messages and stuff, i might still have feelings for her, but...

Is it ever acceptable to get back with a cheater?

 

[Skyline]

The reason why she cheated in the first place is probably still there if you go back. Unless you have identified the problem and fixed it. One example is you were too needy and acting AFC'ish.

But like what most people will say and what usually happens, once a cheater always a cheater.

 

[iamnobody]

Why waste your time with her? She cheated. Not a solid foundation for a relationship.

 

[Purefilth]

If YOU find it acceptable, then i guess it is FOR YOU.

i have too much self respect and i'm aware of my own value(and my percieved value).

Cheat = Delete.

 

[adam225]

If YOU find it acceptable, then i guess it is FOR YOU.

i have too much self respect and i'm aware of my own value(and my percieved value).

Cheat = Delete.

Agreed. If she'll do it once, then she'll do it twice...

 

[HeadLightsOn]

Most people will probably advise you to forget her. It's up to the individual. The problem as I see it, is if you did take her back, she will know you are weak, beta and have low self esteem. She will never tell you that of course, but she'll lock that one in her memory banks.

Was she exceptional, sexually incredible, worthy of a second chance for a potential mate... If you even have to think about the answers to questions like these, the answer is no - don't take her back.