"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tailoring an already tailored blazer?

warrior1

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I just have had it with buying blazers b/c I never get it right. First one i bought was a Banana Republic blazer 40R ONLINE and it is way too big for me. I am about 5'8 150lbs. I couldnt return it because I ripped the tags off the moment i got it.

Yesterday, I bought another banana republic blazer 38S tailored from the actual store. I tried both the 38S and 38R and was wearing a shirt and a sweater, which made the 38S real tight. The salesperson told me its because I was wearing a sweater which is why it felt tight. I bought the 38S and of coruse when i got home i ripped off the tags again. When i wore it yesterday, it was real good with just a shirt underneath.

However, today when i looked at the mirror, it does look small to me. When i stretch my arms up while wearing the suit, i feel a lot of tightness. Also, the 38S tailored blazer does not cover my behind like most blazers do. I think I would have wished i got the 38R instead. I bought it for 325 dollars so there goes another couple of hundred down the drain.

My question now is can i tailor an already tailored blazer? It is a Banana republic 38S tailored fit blazer on the desription. Can i have a tailor adjust it equivalent to the size of a 38R? Would my blazer look different if its tailored, meaning would the tailor make the bottom part of my blazer different since he has to use his material different from my blazer's material?

I want my blazer to cover my behind more and also for me to be able to stretch without it being tight. My other blazer which is not tailored is 40R and it is very huge on me. Can i tailor BOTH these blazers to about 38R? I don't mind paying 50 dollars each to have it perfectly well done since it cost me 550 or so for the 2 blazers and i like how these blazers look.

Thanks for any help. cheers.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fred Da Head

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First, follow gmillar's advice and STOP RIPPING THE DAMN TAGS OFF.

Secondly, you can tailor a jacket to a smaller size, but I doubt you'll find any tailor willing to try his hand at making it bigger.

Third, an off-the-rack blazer/jacket/suit is NOT tailored. It's off-the-rack.

Why didn't you.. I dunno... TAKE YOUR SWEATER OFF when you tried the suits? Do you regularly go around wearing sweaters under your jackets?

By the way, if you're going to pay that much for clothes, go with something respectable in terms of suits, NOT Banana Republic.
 
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