"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tai Chi?

TheDarkSaint

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I'm in a tiny town with no real access to a gym and who's weather is very uncooperative for about 3/4ths of the year. I do want to get in shape though.

I want to start doing Tai Chi again. I took a semester of it in college with my g/f and loved it. I've got hyperthyroidism which will make my heart race too fast if I'm running or lifting. With that Tai Chi class, I felt pleasent and good, as most people describe how they feel after work outs.

I'm thinking about getting an instructional video so I can get back into the routine of it, but I'm at a loss on where to start.

Anyone have any ideas or know of a good instructor who makes quality videos?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Fitch

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Only 8% to 10% of Americans practice Tai Chi, and other Asian practices.

Bear that in mind while you wait for days, and days for a response.
Your just fortunate enough that I happen to come along, in a decent mood.

TIP: www.google.com is your friend. Ask him for advice, he will know what to do.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I suggest going to your local library and check out a few. You'd be surprised at what you can find there on VHS and DVD. It's free, you can check out a few at a time and compare them too. What I usually do is read some of the customer reviews on Amazon.com and pick a couple of recommendations from there before checking them out.
 

Kerensky

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I know this sounds crazy and perhaps unappealing, but try going to a nursing home. Introduce Tai Chi to the elderly and before you know it, the administration might be doing your work for you in terms of getting classes up, organizing morning sessions, etc.

A lot of elderly Asian women and men around my area get up around 6:00 AM when I go outside to play tennis and they do tai chi with swords and stuff. It's even relaxing just to watch them move in unison so smoothly. Ask around about this. It also has some health benefits so I'm sure a lot of people other than you are interested.
 
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