I post this because people think that there's some sort of contradiction between the two. There's not. True, having a strong inner game is what really attracts women. However, the tactics are the way that that inner game is expressed. No one knows whats *inside* you until you say or do something.
So go ahead and learn the tactics, then go out on the field to practice them, so that you'll learn when to apply them, and as a result, internalize them.
As an example, no one thinks about nouns, verbs, and grammar when they're writing a paper, but if you're a professional writer, you have to go back to those basics and master them individually before you go back to writing "naturally", so to speak.
So go ahead and learn the tactics, then go out on the field to practice them, so that you'll learn when to apply them, and as a result, internalize them.
As an example, no one thinks about nouns, verbs, and grammar when they're writing a paper, but if you're a professional writer, you have to go back to those basics and master them individually before you go back to writing "naturally", so to speak.