"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tackling your woman's moods

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PectoralisMajor

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I'l keep it short, for whatever reason your woman goes in a mood. It typically lasts 1-3 days, during which she's cold, distant and damn right grumpy.

should I calmly pull her up on her behaviour?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women are strange and somewhat retarded creatures, just leave her alone and go on with your life without her. She will come back when she is happy again.

If you are around her when she is in a cr@p mood, she will associate you with the bad feelings. They have mood swings, accept it and ignore it.
 
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Could be a million reasons: Something at school/work, fight with friends, catching the flu, thinks she looks fat, bad hair day or the BIG reason....


She's on the RAG!

If her bad mood only lasts 3 days consider your self lucky. (My "grumpy mood" lasts about 5 days, then I go into the whiny phase, then I'm fine for 2 weeks.)

Write it down on the calender and see if it's the same time every month. If it is, then you are forewarned for next time.) Handing her a chocolate bar is never a bad idea...:flowers:
 
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