"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tackling your woman's moods

PectoralisMajor

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I'l keep it short, for whatever reason your woman goes in a mood. It typically lasts 1-3 days, during which she's cold, distant and damn right grumpy.

should I calmly pull her up on her behaviour?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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arutha

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Women are strange and somewhat retarded creatures, just leave her alone and go on with your life without her. She will come back when she is happy again.

If you are around her when she is in a cr@p mood, she will associate you with the bad feelings. They have mood swings, accept it and ignore it.
 

WaterTiger

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Could be a million reasons: Something at school/work, fight with friends, catching the flu, thinks she looks fat, bad hair day or the BIG reason....


She's on the RAG!

If her bad mood only lasts 3 days consider your self lucky. (My "grumpy mood" lasts about 5 days, then I go into the whiny phase, then I'm fine for 2 weeks.)

Write it down on the calender and see if it's the same time every month. If it is, then you are forewarned for next time.) Handing her a chocolate bar is never a bad idea...:flowers:
 
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