T&J's Boot

[Sexual]

Those who deny freedom to others deserve it not for themselves.

It's time to live again, to enjoy life to the fullest, to explore the wilderness, to critique ourselves.

In the truest sense, happiness cannot be bestowed; it must be achieved.

I'm T, or Sexual, and I'm signing in and beginning this boot camp as soon as J signs up and in.

I'm not one for storytelling, but I've been through this before and quit early due to satisfaction of results. Hopefully a partner in crime will push me all the way to another round of good times. Lovely ladies, unforgettable events, and self improvement are my objectives.

I'm 20 years old. I'm very experianced and very down to earth. I'm an athletic student from Florida. I have a side job and I'm unhappy with my results with women right now, so I'm gonna step up my game.

Hope to hear from you all, join if you want as long as you're real. Do me a favor though and save your insults for your so called lives, keyboard jockies, and strap yourself in.

 

[Marley18]

Hey im looking forward to going throug this book camp, maybe it will change the way I not only view women but myself as a man.

 

[mike14]

im definatly in the bootcamp, looking forward to it.

 

[Sexual]

OK, we started late. Since we don't really need too much time for the first two exercises of week one, we'll be done no later than the 10th of August. Work on eye contact? Pshh, that's for virgins. We're going from point A to point B, though, so I'm not taking any shortcuts. We'll post our results on Thursday night (though I doubt anything interesting will happen to me through establishing eye contact and conveying confidence).

 

[Sexual]

OK, I'm like halfway done and I haven't had the time or felt the need to go out JUST for eye contacts. I completed about half of the objective within three days so I could skip the first week pretty much. Nevertheless, I'm back into the habit of making eye contact with everyone and not only does it radiate confidence, but it makes me feel more so as well.

To inspire others since my little paragraph won't do the trick, here's a written journal entry from my last boot camp a couple years ago when I actually finished with all 50.

It's amazing really how I'm starting to realize how important strict eye contact is with my communication and contact skills. It's not all too clear, but I somehow feel like I can identify how friendly and confident someone is by saying hello, or how's it going. I'm feeling anxious to talk to people who keep confident in their formal greetings and I'm antsy to know how I'm going to feel at the end of the week because it's only my third day and I'm halfway done. I will also decide if I need to progress ahead to the next step if I finish by Thursday, considering the next step will be much more difficult, and I want to start with my confidence high.

One shining example can lead an army. I hope it's true, but I'm having problems keeping my friends in this camp with me moving and reading their material (they have too much confidence to do something as simple as practice eye contact).

 

[mike14]

The first week of bootcamp went well. The first day (monday) i read the material and started the excersizes. At first i started with eye contact, then i moved up to "Hey", I cant belive how many insecure motherfu(kers there are that cant keep eye contact. Eye contact was definatly the hardest part of the excercize for this reason. The next couple of days i moved up to saying "How are you doin?", and i was suprised how poeple started conversions with me. On friday night me and my buddies went downtown to sarge. we opened 5 sets, but no number closing. After downtown i went to a Pitbull concert that was happening in my city. Opened 5 sets and danced alot, but for the most part it was a ****farm. Overall this week was pretty easy, exept for people not keeping eye contact.

 

[Sexual]

Awesome, good to know someone is going along with me. My other two buddies don't have the drive and aren't taking me seriously. Their loss.
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I've now progessed into my second week past Developing / Conveying Confidence. Its been hard without taking my anti-depressants or drinking/toking anymore, but my confidence has started to build back already with completion of my first week's goals. Cigarettes have become my temporary drug of choice, and **** off anyone who has something to say about that because I can't go completely cold turkey sober. They keep me awake, alert, and active. They also help my "I don't give a ****" attitude.

8/13
I know I supposively started on Thursday, but I'm in the middle of finals and working my ass off. I'm now reading the material tonight, and I went on a date tonight with a girl named Katie. It was a very different experience with not trying to get laid for once. I practiced 100% on my conversational skills and eye contact, and I believe I did very well. Did I say 100%? OK, so maybe after dinner I practiced my make out skils for 20 minutes since she invited me in. Man, was that nervewracking at first! I usually start with rubbing her sides or arms slightly with my middle finger and then pull her forward if she doesn't make a long substantial glance. Everytime I tried to bump up the intensity, she somewhat resisted, so I became content with my results and bid her adieu.

I learned anything and everything about her. I picked up lots of good stuff. I know lots of stuff about her hometown, her divorced parents and twin younger sisters, her college goals of being a vet and previous work experience, many of her hobbies, preferences and passions as in for animals, her morals and views and willingness to do pretty much anything for her friends.... I'm a scholar! I've finished reading the material tonight and I'm starting the exercises asap. I met and did some small talk with two attractive women on different occassions in the gym last week, so I'm pumped and prepared.

 

[Sexual]

8/14
Since I didn't technically start until yesterday, I won't count the two girls from earlier. Besides, I hadn't read the material yet and I felt like I bombed the second girl since my eye contact was horrible and I pretty much pushed through the conversation like it was more of an objective than a relaxed convo. Remembering the material, I opened a convo with a guy named Tim by starting with a comparison of our Nissan keys. From there I hit a few other areas on origin and interests. He was a nice guy, a few years older than me, and easy to talk to, but I found talking to a guy in the gym for more than 5 minutes made me feel too like I was actually interested in meeting guys. So I said nice to meet you and took off.

8/18
I'm going on a second date with Katie to see Snakes on a Plane on Sunday, which I heard kicked ass. I've been slacking on cold approach conversations (I have a few), although in forced conversations (like when they talk to me first or they're with my friends) I've gotten ten easy. The whole process of creating a rap is down tight. I don't know if the program was for me to to do cold approaches, but I am able to talk to strangers in any situation, so I think I have the just of it down. I'll get the cold approaches out of the way my third week anyway. Last night I found out pretty much everything I needed to know about a younger girl with a boyfriend to realize how uninteresting she was, and today I went shopping and got to know an attractive Express saleswomen pretty well by starting with the basics from boot and progressing from there. At work, I did small talk with fellow employees and asked about their majors, background, and misc. info.

I want to end the week before tomorrow so I can get some more material from week three to use on my date tomorrow.

Week two completed!

 

[Sexual]

School and rush are this week so it's going to be POWERPACKED! Work will be a blast too since new students are going to be coming into the clubs thinking they're hot ****. I really need a good fight, it can be very remedial when over-stressed or in need of a confidence boost.

8/21
So this is it? Man, I think the program was updated since I last went through it. I could have sworn it was 6 weeks long with harder objectives. But since I'm commited, I might as well give it my all. This week the objectives are somewhat vague, but here's what I interpret. It says initiate conversations with women that I'd date, but I'm going to take an extra step. I'm going to talk to as many women as I can (since there's no set number) that I would not only date, because that makes the week too easy and the women too varied, but also women that -I- find nervewracking. Yup, there's a few out there that even scare me- and I gotta find em. And why not? I'll go for numbers.


The bar I went to in my hometown tonight wasn't much of a crowd pleaser, but I had a few good conversations with women, but one in general that I'd consider to... well, I'm not much of a dater, but I'd definetly indulge in impure thoughts about.... meaning I guess it doesn't really help my game much by meeting her and getting her number. I need some encouragement from my buddies for those dimes, but they're not much help. Bah. I'll try to toughen.

8/23
Yesterday I hung out most of the day with an old girl.... FRIEND and relaxed in the sun on the beach. Accepted is an awesome movie. Anyway, last night I went out to Fat Tuesdays just to enjoy the social scene and I ended up on my two left feet, grinding with some chick. Just for my own amusement I somewhere put in a kiss and it lead to makeout session. I left and saw her later at an after party with two guys. Haha, sluts are great. My first day of school was going well and there was no hot girls in my first class, but then in the second- BAM. I sit next to a HB9. I don't know what came over me, but I started some light conversation by commenting on her backpack covered in buttons to meeting her and getting digits. She had a lot in common with me which was refreshing. I felt great afterwards. Interesting name though, I've never found a girl named Bonnie attractive, even though that is a slang term for BABE.

8/27
Whew. Well, many things happened that I didn't expect this week. The main point is, I achieved my goal by talking to women I'd date and I can't wait to move on. I didn't end up rushing, I got into a fight at the club, I had a fender-bender, and I hooked up with an ex yet again *smack*. The first week of school stressed me out. It's time to get into the material and begin the fourth week.

Week Three Completed!

 

[Sexual]

This crap has me too goal oriented. It's too mechanical, too unreal. It's promising, though it doesn't feel right. I've learned so much from the DJ Boot Camp and articles within the DJ Bible that it has lead me to, but this... this feels right. I'm studying this from now on.

I consider myself a proud, sexual, warrior-like type of man. Now I will prove it to myself.

The gunwich method

 

[Bonhomme]

Looks like you were way ahead of "bootcamp" anyway. Just roll with it an have fun!