“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Quiksilver

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My left side(shoulder, arm, upper back) is noticeably smaller than my right side. I also had a chiropractic exam on thursday and the doc said I have an overdominance on my right side and its causing my spine to lean out to the right a bit.

How do I go about strengthening my left side effectively?

My idea:

1) Do an extra few reps of each exercise(DB shoulder press, curls, rows) with my left.

2) Also, I've started training in tennis with my left hand as well. I know that sounds crazy, but its excellent training to be proficient with both sides.

It's not that it isn't as strong, like I push/pull the same weights with both arms, its just noticeably(not huge difference, but noticeable) smaller, and the doc noticed it too, so...

Anybody with experience at balancing out a physique would be welcome.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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yeah my right lat. is noticeably larger than my left.. How do I grow it at a slightly faster rate than the right?

Just tack an extra rep or two onto Rows for left side, or...?
 

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I'm left handed by my right side has more size.

Larger quads
Larger biceps/triceps

Those are the only two things really...
 

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I'm right handed, and while my right started out the strongest, my left shoulder and chest have become stronger than my right, though my right arm is much stronger (no jokes boys).

I've started doing curls beginning with left (weakest) arm, and when that fails not doing anymore on right. And likewise for other exercises, but dunno... seems to not work so much for chest, where I'm pretty much usually doing a 5RM so pushing with everything...
 

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still don't know how to even out a lopsided physique.
 

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in my experience it will balance in time (once it's fully developed), or if its some particular dysmorphia then it probably never will, but no-one's gonna notice. don't sweat it.
 

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Watch out for those chiropractors. They will tell you amazing things. I would consider getting multiple opinions, preferrably some from other types of doctors. This is coming from experience.
 

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To balance out--

Train all your one sided exercises left side first, and only do as many reps with your right side as you can with your left. Your right side will slow down, but it'll be worth it for your left side to catch up.
 

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couldn't you just put in more of an effort conciously towards your left when your doing the weights that use both arms?
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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