"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Symbolic of a Don Juan

lebRambo

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hey guys.

Has anyone seen the movie Troy? Remember Achilles, the brad pitt character? THAT is what I picture a Don Juan to be, EXACTLY! He is extremely powerful, and not subservient to someone who claims to be his king. he gives respect where it is due, and punishes those who disrespect him. One of the best lines I think in the movie is when him and his little group of elite warriors are about to land on the shore of Troy and he says:

"We are lions! Let none forget how menacing we are!"

Achilles was a real man. He lived like a real man and died like a real man. Regardless whether or not there actually was an achilles, the message is still the same.

Another movie was Gangs of New York. Bill the Butcher, Priest Vallon and Amsterdam Vallon are pretty close to what a man is supposed to be.


Any other movies or characters that inspire this in you?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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darthsidious

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achilles is fictional. he was made out to be an athletic womanizer. you got it all wrong weakling.

you know who the real man was?

it wasn't orlando bloom, or that old king. but it was that guy who played orlando bloom's older brother (the one with the beard) if you think that the random rap star is a DJ you got problems. He cared for people and he also was a great fighter, too bad he got his ass served by Achilles.
 

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Originally posted by darthsidious
achilles is fictional. he was made out to be an athletic womanizer. you got it all wrong weakling.
You know what? The brother is just as fictional as Achilles. But that's not the point. Achilles doesn't give a **** whereas the brother is being politically correct. They would both attract women but in my opinion, the brother would be considered relationship material. I think if you want to label them, the brother would be a DJ and Achilles would be a bad guy or a jerk.
 

lebRambo

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but the reason why achilles is awesome is that he doesn't take sh!t from that king dude, or ANYONE.
 

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Achilles is a petulant baby. He sulks because he feels that he is not given the right slave woman as part of his booty. In doing so, his best friend is killed and his side, the Greeks nearly lose their seige. All over a slave woman. He unjustly wanted something and went off and sulked like a little child.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jay-X

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Originally posted by JSH
Achilles is a petulant baby. He sulks because he feels that he is not given the right slave woman as part of his booty. In doing so, his best friend is killed and his side, the Greeks nearly lose their seige. All over a slave woman. He unjustly wanted something and went off and sulked like a little child.
actually he wanted what he had been promised
 

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This guy named "MARV" from sin city, what you guys think? HE is a BAD @SS
 
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