"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Switch of Personality?

illmatic1005

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i hate it when a girl acts like she is in love with you one day but the next day she acts like she doesnt care....

i kno this girl who will for like 5 days be all over me but then switches her personality and acts like she just met me. she will act like she never did anything for a couple of days then just revert back and be all over me again...shes been doing this for a long time now..

Also, shes the type of girl who acts like she is a slut and hits on every guy but C&F, neg hits, and all that stuff wont work because she'll get offended easily. She is like a mix between a slutty party girl and a quiet, shy girl?
What should i do?
 

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Interceptor

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What you're witnessing is a girls' immaturity and inexperience.

A lot of young males have to realize the young girls are also exploriing their attraction/seduction/sexuality in these formative years.
These are the games they leanr and you're the guinea pig she's learning it on/with.
Because you're also young, inexperienced, and immature you are easily swayed by this girl. You are her puppet.

You wil use this experience to make you into a Man.


You will no longer be swayed by her emotions, whims, or moods.
You need to find something better to spend time and energy and effort on.
You will learn to realiz that you are not depserate or needy. And that you don't need to have a woman by your side to make you happy.
Explore yourself, your hobbies, your interests. and if the girl comes along, all the better.
But if you don't pay attention to these behaviors and learn the signs and how to deal with them you will be in seriously bad shape in the future.
Prepare for your Life.
Prepare foyour Manhood.
It's your right to be happy, and not be used as an emotional "toy".


Experience this...look at it as a Win/Win situation.
No matter what she does, you always come out on top.
You are alwasy cool headed, and do not react.
You merely observe her and her "ways".

Again, remember this, she is exploring her femeninity. She doesn't know what kind of effect she has on males, this is what she is learning NOW.
By your reactions, you help her gauge what she is doing right, and what she is doing wrong. in addition, the more chumpish you behave, the more you encourage her to focus on he manipulation techiques and mind fvcking techiques.


DO NOT GET CARRIED AWAY WITH YOUR EMOTIONS or FEELINGS OF ATTACHMENT TO THIS IMMATURE GIRL.

I know just about every guy has gone through this, you may be no different.
I am hoping you take my advice, and act intelligently, not emotionally.

Good luck.
 

Mental

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illmatic1005 said:
i hate it when a girl acts like she is in love with you one day but the next day she acts like she doesnt care....

i kno this girl who will for like 5 days be all over me but then switches her personality and acts like she just met me. she will act like she never did anything for a couple of days then just revert back and be all over me again...shes been doing this for a long time now..

Also, shes the type of girl who acts like she is a slut and hits on every guy but C&F, neg hits, and all that stuff wont work because she'll get offended easily. She is like a mix between a slutty party girl and a quiet, shy girl?
What should i do?
I supose we all do it to a degree.

If I'm performing, I turn it on. I'm one hell of a guy. I speak better, I'm a lot more charming, and I feel better on stage. But if I have to introduce myself repeatedly or in a small crowd, I am a bit more akward. And sometimes I've noticed the change in personality is pretty quick.

But usually there's more of a reason behind a mood or personality change.

But this type of change so often and so quickly might be a sign of trouble in the future. I'd stay at arms length.
 
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