Mr. Unique
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To those who have Swinggcats E-book, Im thinking of purchasing swinggcats E-book, Is it any good? What does it mainly focus on? should I mesh it with my current VAH?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Swinggcats E-book.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
everywomanshero
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Yes, swinggcat's book is good.
There are some little bits that go nicely with VAH stuff, like cold reading, belief systems, push-pull, etc.
I really haven't used all of swinggcat's techniques, but he has some really good ideas. Ex. No matter how she reacts, assume she's getting turned on.
This sounds simple, but it can make big effect. If you go out there and think "maybe she will give me ***** shield", then it will probably happen. If you interpret everything she does as trying to win you over and that she's into you, then the chances for positive outcome increase a lot.
But, like anything, it's possible to become the "nasty nerd" to steal an RSD term and try to use this stuff in a negative, ego-protecting fasion.
There are some little bits that go nicely with VAH stuff, like cold reading, belief systems, push-pull, etc.
I really haven't used all of swinggcat's techniques, but he has some really good ideas. Ex. No matter how she reacts, assume she's getting turned on.
This sounds simple, but it can make big effect. If you go out there and think "maybe she will give me ***** shield", then it will probably happen. If you interpret everything she does as trying to win you over and that she's into you, then the chances for positive outcome increase a lot.
But, like anything, it's possible to become the "nasty nerd" to steal an RSD term and try to use this stuff in a negative, ego-protecting fasion.
Doggystyle
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Yeah its a good book, gives you homework assignments to carryout in small doses at a time, very well written and set out too. With examples are conversations and techniques used at the end.
If you follow it through it is enough to get you going and doing very well, don't just read it and put it down expecting to find any miricle techniques, it is a very good guide
A lot of swingcat articles are on the main page sosuave.com, check out his style of writing and see if you like it
If you follow it through it is enough to get you going and doing very well, don't just read it and put it down expecting to find any miricle techniques, it is a very good guide
A lot of swingcat articles are on the main page sosuave.com, check out his style of writing and see if you like it
I've read it. Typical seduction e-book really. You know, like it's 100 pages long but only because of the 20 point font 
Anyways, I thought it was pretty good. The emphasis is mostly on story telling and his whole qualification thing from what I can remember. I don't know if you'd need to buy it. You may get the jist just from reading old archives about what he does.
Anyways, I thought it was pretty good. The emphasis is mostly on story telling and his whole qualification thing from what I can remember. I don't know if you'd need to buy it. You may get the jist just from reading old archives about what he does.