“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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are any of you guys swingers?

just wondering 'cos if you're into easy sex then isn't that even easier than going to a bar?

unless of course there aren't any fit birds...
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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A few years back, I went to a Swing party. The quality of women was sub-par, to say the least.
 

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thought it might be a bit like that - I was really pissed off the other day - I've just started uni and a fit girl I went to college with turns out to be a swinger, missed my chance there :cry:

worst thing is, she used to invite me to 'cheese' parties, which are apparently swingers parties, with another fit girl from college :cry:

wish I'd known!
 

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been there, done that...

The term "swinger" is a little outdated. It conjures images of senior-citizen wife-swapping, but anyone who is using adultfriendfinder or xpeeps or sites like those to hook up for sex is a swinger. Those sites are about 98% desperate single guys, but with a good photo it is still possible to meet people. It also helps to be in an urban area with a lot of people. If you're a single guy who wants to get laid in the swinging community, you can't be all that picky or uptight. I had my best 'relationships' with older women who had even older husbands whose sexual prowess had declined with age but would let their wives have fun with other guys, in exchange for being able to watch and take pictures. I'm probably still part of a few amateur porn collections :eek:

But all of that was in my early 20's, and I have no interest in hanging with the sex freaks anymore. All of us on this site have access to the information to build the necessary skills to get a choice gf and have great sex, maybe even an occasional threesome with a woman of her liking. When you have all of that going on for you, then the people with ads on the swinging sites start to look sad and desperate.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Interesting thread. Good reply Bible, this is something I have always wondered about also, after reading a short story from a girl who visited swingers parties.

Doubt many of the kids on this site have experience with such things, but glad there was someone with experience in the area. Interesting topic.
 

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THere are a few swingers clubs here in LV but I'm not an exhibitionist so I'm not really into it. I've met alot of girls who are all about that sh*t though. Come to think of it, I just banged a chick and after dropping her off at her house, I realized she lives by the red rooster two! I hope she's not hiding anything from me...but if she is, at least I wore a condom:up:
 
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