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John9999

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This will be just as much fun as my post regarding escorts.

I have been to a couple swinger house parties and it wasn’t great. I keep getting invited but as a single mail I think it’s a real crapshoot as to what’s going to happen at one of these events.

Anyone wanna comment that HAS EXPERIENCE with this?
 

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You need to take a date… You may have been invited, but you need to realize the unspoken invite that it takes two to tango…
Going single is like trying to get into a high stakes poker game without any money or chips…
 

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You need to take a date… You may have been invited, but you need to realize the unspoken invite that it takes two to tango…
Going single is like trying to get into a high stakes poker game without any chips…
I know absolutely nothing about this topic.
But it seems to me that if they let singles participate in these events, they are going to turn into sausage parties real quick.
 

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This will be just as much fun as my post regarding escorts.

I have been to a couple swinger house parties and it wasn’t great. I keep getting invited but as a single mail I think it’s a real crapshoot as to what’s going to happen at one of these events.

Anyone wanna comment that HAS EXPERIENCE with this?
I’m curious. How are the women at these parties? attractive? My town bar is known as swinger party central. I see nothing but old ugly ladies and fat old men whenever I drive by.
 

Poonani Maker

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I was with this chick in a swinger hotel back in 2011, she told me the rules of someone will come knockin to "use the bathroom" and that's where the swingin starts (not sure if you can decide then and there at the door). We'd fvck for hours in fully mirrored room, 'twas like being in the devil's den. I wasn't as experienced then as I am now and she could really kiss full-on lust, her on top taking control. I was so much hornier back then cause I was younger of course, could feel everything, and nervous some. I was with her for about 4 months, before I had to cut her off cause she was a drug addict, she even fell asleep on me While we were fvcking, I think I mentioned her in a post here long ago. Crazy times, but I'll never forget just fvckedupedness I experienced with her. She tried to get me to shoot up but I absolutely refused, I didn't even know she did until later. So sad. I remember fvcking her on a 100+ degree night and I have NEVER been as drenched in sweat with a woman in my life before or since. It was marathon sex. We were in the shower. I did her so many places and on so many surfaces. That was a lusty horny full of stamina chick except that one night when she fell asleep on me. We had sleep-inducing music playing so I guess that snapped her out idk but it was a bummer. When we got up we talked about several things and she was looking uglier (about the 4th month I knew her) not like I first saw her and the best days were the early days with her. It's amazing how week to week month to month women change so much. I'm the same person pretty much.
 

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This thread keeps reminding me of those Sling commercials, with Nick Offerman.
 

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I'm in the swinging community. Just like with anything there are attractive and unattractive people. You just have to weed them out. I've never done a house party. I only do meet ups after exchanging pictures and video chatting so I know who I am meeting.
 

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There is a swinger's club in my city. I've never participated but watched the people come and go from the place while trying to sober up before I drove home one night. The majority of women I saw coming and going were not that attractive. Not a place I would go to hook up with hot girls. Luxury/High end bars are much better for that.
 

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I met a couple of swingers once, banged her while he was watching then he banged her.

Their deal is that they either swap or they either get a guy for her or a girl for him once in a while.

She wasnt top material but was good enough for her age...my horror came only when I saw her facebook profile with pictures of them with their kid.
 

Redwolf

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I met a couple of swingers once, banged her while he was watching then he banged her.

Their deal is that they either swap or they either get a guy for her or a girl for him once in a while.

She wasnt top material but was good enough for her age...my horror came only when I saw her facebook profile with pictures of them with their kid.
There's a surprising amount of couples out there that are into MFM. Some of these wifes are pretty hot also
 

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I met a couple of swingers once, banged her while he was watching then he banged her.

Their deal is that they either swap or they either get a guy for her or a girl for him once in a while.

She wasnt top material but was good enough for her age...my horror came only when I saw her facebook profile with pictures of them with their kid.
Guess it’s more exciting for them than the neighborhood Bridge club then…
 

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Don't laugh, it often comes down to banalities such as this, Monogamy is so difficult, sometimes it comes to cliche's like this.
 

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Swinging is super common and not really taboo anymore. It is prevalent in the hippy generation, so folks in their 55-60s now. If you are in that world at all you see how pretty much every married couple swings. I look at ir as something old folks do. lol.
 

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There are a lot of younger couples also but it seems you have to weed out the flakes just like in real dating.
 

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Ive had a few mfm experiences with couples and enjoyed. Basically i was a “bull” and likely chosen because i was in pretty good shape at the time from the gym and am well endowed.

I wouldnt mind doing it again but an married now so those days are long past
 
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